On the Eve

On New Year's Eve, we think about change and resolutions or, in my case, intentions. I'm feeling pretty much like a failure today, even though I know that's irrational and no one is "a failure," even if we don't do everything right or everything successfully. I know that. And yet... WARNING: If you prefer to … Continue reading On the Eve

Friday Fun

I might have posted this fascinating article before, but I can't resist looking at it again. Meet The Dominatrix Who Requires The Men Who Hire Her To Read Black Feminist Theory. I love this article because it talks about the psychological component of BDSM, and the connection between BDSM and healing from trauma. This connection … Continue reading Friday Fun

On vacation

Sorry. I had every intention of writing this week, but is not going to happen. Having a fabulous time, Might be back next Friday but maybe not. I shall return though. Like the proverbial bad penny