I found myself mentally chanting those words, bent over the bed, ass exposed, waiting for the flogging to begin... It was leather night, very exciting after last week's wood night. It's not that I don't enjoy paddles. I do. But not quite as much or as hard as Sir planned (and carried out.) Of course, … Continue reading Crops and Floggers and Belts, Oh, My!
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Last Night’s Menu
In our earliest efforts at D/s life, spankings often happened with my hands restrained over my head - there was actually a hook in the wall specifically for that purpose. In the beginning, I ended up feeling like his spanking lacked energy and enthusiasm. When he tried to adjust that, he ended up just whaling … Continue reading Last Night’s Menu
Omg
Sir's inner sadist has been awakened. Today is Maintenance Day. Before our time together, Sir sends me an email with an outline of what to expect that evening. I do appreciate that. So part of the email for today included this: Tonight’s All You Can Eat menu will be Appetizers- Wooden spoon … Continue reading Omg
A Poem for the Day
There once was a Dom who lived in a shoeHis sub was so naughty, he didn’t know what to do.So he whipped off his belt, which filled her with dread,Spanked her quite soundly,and put her to bed. Good night y’all! 💜 Photo by Caleb Oquendo on Pexels.com
More about Spanking
I've been thinking about the changes in myself this time around with Sir X. I like to think of myself as a gentle, easy-going person, kind and non-judgemental. And in some ways, I think that's accurate. However... I can also be opinionated, stubborn, rigid, and difficult. I know - shocking, right? I think that in … Continue reading More about Spanking
Spank-o-rama
That's what Sir is calling our Wednesday maintenance sessions now. A Spank-o-roma. And it was. He thought 68 was too high a number of strokes, so he took it down to 34. 34 with the thin paddle, 34 with the medium paddle, 34 with the heavy paddle, and 34 with the leather strap. Yikes. Ok, … Continue reading Spank-o-rama
Celebrating in Real Life
I could do my usual fussing about Valentine's Day. It's not my favorite holiday. It's a Hallmark holiday - one of many - that pressures us to spend money and makes us feel bad if we don't have a romantic other or don't get the right recognition of the day. But this year - with Sir X … Continue reading Celebrating in Real Life
Punished
She was standing, arms stretched above her head, suspended from a leather leash that ran from her cuffs to a hook in the ceiling. She was fastened securely, and grateful that she was not bound too tightly. She hated being whipped while she was pulled up on her toes. "Ohh!" she cried out - she had … Continue reading Punished
The Joy of Spankings…
I may have mentioned before that I love spankings - getting, not giving, of course. So I've been thinking about my history of getting spanked, mentally reviewing all the experiences I've had since I began living kinky back in 2010. By 2013, I had settled in with MP, although he was Sir X back then, and moved … Continue reading The Joy of Spankings…
The 2nd Wednesday
Yesterday was Wednesday. The second time that Sir X followed a script devised by Sir Jon and spanked me, live and in person. This time the script involved the flogger, a belt, and a heavy strap. Sir Jon is experimenting with finding the line between pleasure and pain for me. Sir X is really embracing this poly arrangement, … Continue reading The 2nd Wednesday