For You

I ran across this quote recently. Something in it speaks to me - oh, maybe it's all the ways it is me. Although, I loved my waiting tables days. It reads like a poem to me - even though it's not. But here's how it reads to me. “The useless days will add up to … Continue reading For You


I am still chatting with some people on Fetlife. Not with the first guy who started a conversation, I think I scared him off. Lol, no really. He asked me a question. He wanted to know my opinion on the Dom/sub vs Master/slave distinction. In retrospect, I think he just wanted a short "people should … Continue reading And IRL

Sunny Sunday

Several things made today lovely. Last night I decided that I wasn’t going to start working before 8 a.m. anymore. That might not seem like a big deal, or it might seem like something I should have done ages ago. But it felt good to get up today and know that I wasn’t going to … Continue reading Sunny Sunday

An Explanation

Not that I owe anyone an explanation, but after my last post, Duncan Lorry, over at Your Sex Interview was commenting on the "Caregivers who want to have sex" name of the Facebook group I just left. Lol, yes, that does sound bad. And of course that's not what the group calls itself, just my … Continue reading An Explanation