Father's Day and Summer Solstice on the same day!! Well, Father's Day in the US anyhow. I've been thinking about both today. Summer Solstice is lovely, all warmth and fresh fruit and vegetables, walking in the evening or the early morning... I love summer. “…This is the solstice, the still point of the sun, its … Continue reading June 21, 2026
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The Adventure: Reconnecting…
This was an adventure I didn't want. A trip to visit MP's relatives near Where-We-Used-to-Live to celebrate his daughter's graduation. Two days of driving the mobility van to spend three days there (in two different small towns) and two days of driving home. His family is fine, they're good people, we like each other. And … Continue reading The Adventure: Reconnecting…
Taking Care of Myself
If you’re looking for a post on self-care, you are not in the right place. “Taking care of myself” is my preferred euphemism for self-pleasuring. Also known as playing with myself. Or masturbation, which I think is an ugly word for a very satisfying experience. Anyhow. If you’ve been reading here a while, you probably … Continue reading Taking Care of Myself
Not Yet
Anticipation. My body feels different. Or I feel different about my body. So aware of my movements, aware of the belt next to my skin. I rub my hands on my thighs. Even clothed, the sensations move down my leg as I stroke, warming the palm of my hand as it caresses. Moving my fingers … Continue reading Not Yet
Valentine’s Day 2026
Generally, when I write about Valentine's Day, it starts like this: For the record, Valentine’s Day is not my favorite holiday – It’s a Hallmark holiday so there’s too much pressure to “show” your love with material things and I don’t like it. Although, in all honesty, I would probably like it more if I … Continue reading Valentine’s Day 2026
Imbolc 2026
Imbolc, a Celtic festival, is today. It marks the halfway point between Winter Solstice and Summer Solstice. I welcome the returning light and embrace the promise of a new beginning. Imbolc is a time to spark your creativity, start new projects, step into the energy of moving toward new life. I release what no longer … Continue reading Imbolc 2026
Meet the Spoon. My Spoon
A friend of mine recently wrote a post about a wooden spoon. She called it the “ouchie little monster.” It looked - well, you know how this work. It was intriguing. It called to me. And it was scary. It didn’t take long for my Sir to let me know that I was going to … Continue reading Meet the Spoon. My Spoon
Me and The Belt
You may already know that the belt is my favorite spanking tool. So you won’t be surprised that I bought a belt because a Dom I’ve been talking to thought it would be good for me to use it on myself. It’s a simple leather belt, but already buttery soft, and I was pleased that … Continue reading Me and The Belt
Winter Solstice – 2025
Winter Solstice, as you probably know, marks the turning of the seasons, the longest night that leads us to the beginning of shorter nights and more light. It’s my favorite of the Pagan celebrations because I love the returning light. Although, as I’ve been reminded lately, the light is always there, whether we can see … Continue reading Winter Solstice – 2025
This Time of Year
Whether you celebrate Hanukkah, Yule, Kwanzaa, or Christmas, it is beginning to be that time of year. As usual, there are particular Christmas songs that I like to share because they are a little bit different than what people generally listen to. Sometimes I do a whole bunch of them on the same post, this … Continue reading This Time of Year
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