"Are you sure you're in the right place?" he messaged. It was just a chat message on Facebook, from someone I'd never met, but somehow I could picture him with one eyebrow raised. I laughed. And messaged back, "Oh, probably not. I rarely am." It was a hook-up group of sorts where we'd met, on … Continue reading In the Wrong Place… a fantasy

Living life in the fast lane over here - ok, not really. I just like to say that, and "Just walking on the wild side" too, but you know, neither of those are exactly true. I do have some exciting interesting fairly mundane updates to share. 😀 The Noom thing is going well. I've now … Continue reading More Good Times in The Land of Vanilla

So, this thing happened and, as is sometimes the case, this is still the best place to share it. So I'd been feeling the lack of relationship and struggling with what to do. I had joined this FB group for caregivers that was really helpful in giving me some perspective on my life and my … Continue reading Just Giggling Over Here

Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com First of all, I have a follow up to my "Wounded" post. I talked with the thoughtless person who had hurt my feelings, and it turns out that they thought my heart-felt offer was a pity offer. They didn't want my pity. Which - you know, who does? No body. … Continue reading Sunday Joy

Something happened tonight that deeply hurt my feelings. It was a little thing that happened. I made an offer, and the other person responded to it with a sound of contempt. Pft. I think that's how you write it. Just a little sound, a puff of air really. Totally dismissive. They didn't say anything else. … Continue reading Wounded

Nora, over at Finding Strength in My Submission, has been reading a book by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny. I was delighted that she was enjoying the book and really appreciated her thoughts about it. You can read her reflections (so far) here: Bookworm: Review of Real Service continued. That post contains the links to … Continue reading Revisiting Master Raven Kaldera

I started talking to someone on D/s Safeword. Just messaging back and forth a bit. It didn't go anywhere, but that's not what I can here to talk about. It stirred me up a little bit. Just enough that I went to look at this website. The author is a friend of Naughty Nora's over … Continue reading Thoughts in April

I've started playing with my Tarot cards a bit - every morning, I shuffle the cards a bit, pick one and read the description of it in my little book. Each description has a small healing prayer, and that's been nice. I've done it the last 5 days - and, interestingly, I've picked two of … Continue reading From the Tarot Deck

Yes, this is my new blogging strategy - I don't write for a while and then I can come back and celebrate that I'm here again. Lol, simple but effective. I have not written more of my latest story because I'm afraid to. I'm afraid that Selena is going to overthink it all and end … Continue reading MIA No More

I realized on my mini-retreat that I missed connecting with people. That’s not usually the case. Usually, I savor being alone. The silence. The freedom. This time, I noticed pretty quickly that I wanted to share this time with other people. It kind of confused me for a minute. But I decided to invite my … Continue reading More Revelations