As y'all may remember, i created a profile for myself on Fetlife. While not much has been happening there, i did have this (amusing) exchange with someone calling himself "LBL4415." i've removed my website link from my profile, so i don't feel bad laughing about the conversation here, even if it does highlight my mean … Continue reading The Joys of Fet
Just me
Sunday Check-in 6-26
i don't know if it's the licorice root stick, or just a slightly different way of thinking about food, but i haven't been eating compulsively this last week. My scouting forays into the kitchen to see what we've got good to eat have practically stopped. i eat my meals, and that's enough. Weird, isn't it? On … Continue reading Sunday Check-in 6-26
And now…
...a word from our sponsor. Oh, wait a minute, that's me, at least i'm the only one around. i'm just thinking it's time for a real life chat, instead of this fantasy stuff. Back in the real world, life is not half bad. i'm about to try a new strategy to address my compulsive eating, … Continue reading And now…
Sunday Check-in
And it's Father's Day! So Happy Father's Day to all the actual fathers i know, and to all the Daddy Doms too. Happy Father's Day to all the step-dads and the grandfathers, uncles, brothers and mentors who are stand-ins for dad. And Happy Father's Day to all the moms who are trying to do it … Continue reading Sunday Check-in
Not Today
i almost had my next installment on my book done, but then i decided i didn't like a turn it had taken, so i have re-work to do. No big deal, but i had a lot of regular stuff to take care of today, so it won't be ready to post til Monday probably. And … Continue reading Not Today
Sexuality and Spirituality…
i ran across this quote the other day: “When we touch the place in our lives where sexuality and spirituality come together, we touch our wholeness and the fullness of our power, and at the same time our connection with a power larger than ourselves.” ― Judith Plaskow, Standing Again at Sinai: … Continue reading Sexuality and Spirituality…
Sunday check-in 6-12 (on Monday)
Really, anything i might have to say about myself is overshadowed by the tragedy in Orlando, where at least 50 people died and 53 people were wounded in a gay bar. My heart breaks for the victims and their families and friends and for all of us, who are less safe everywhere. ************************* In my own … Continue reading Sunday check-in 6-12 (on Monday)
Worries
i love this poem.* And i started reading a new series of BDSM books last night - The Dominants of Genesis. i'm not quite through the first one yet (true confession, i read it for the plot and the D/s, and sort of skim the sex stuff - i know, crazy.) But so far, … Continue reading Worries
Change
i saw this on FB yesterday and was intrigued. i think it might be helpful for me to answer these questions (even though i also think i might just be putting off actually doing anything different.) i can't find the article now, or i would post a link to it. But here's the part that … Continue reading Change
Three for Day 3 – and Check-in Sunday
Moving into the last day of the quote challenge - i actually found three quotes i liked. “Open your mind. See the world in all its splendid color. Truly look at the uniqueness of the people around you and cherish the nuances. Before you make judgments of others and their lifestyles, always remember that there … Continue reading Three for Day 3 – and Check-in Sunday
Olivia 