This is one of my favorite terms - don't ask me why. Or, you can ask me, but I don't know why. It's just so delightfully descriptive. I had to look it up, of course, to make sure I knew what it meant. I found this definition: Hot mess is used to describe a particularly … Continue reading A Hot Mess
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Kinky Advent Calendar – Day 2
2. Candy Canes Whether you are going for the sweet treat or the impact version, show us your best D/s candy cane ideas. I hope y'all don't think I'm going to write some full blown fantasy for every day of Advent, cause - yeah, probably not gonna do that. But I plan to post something... … Continue reading Kinky Advent Calendar – Day 2
Advent Calendar- Day 1
Get the Tinsel Out– Find a creative way to show your Dominant or your submissive side by celebrating with tinsel. “Tinsel?’ She giggled. “I don’t know what we could do with tinsel. If I were a pony-girl, we could tie it to my tail. But I’m not.” He laughed. “True. But I didn’t get this … Continue reading Advent Calendar- Day 1
The SafeworD/s Club has an event
There’s a blog by that name - The SafewordD/s Club - which is pretty fascinating. They have membership and a chat room. I haven’t joined yet (at least not at the time I’m writing this- that could have changed by the time I hit “publish.”). It is NOT an on-line dating site. It is NOT … Continue reading The SafeworD/s Club has an event
Rebooting
I think between my weekend away and my holiday weekend, which was lazy and pleasant, I've done a full reboot on my self. My tarot cards arrived today. They are lovely, and I'm looking forward to spending time with them and getting to know them. Here's the deck I got: It's called Earth Warriors Oracle, … Continue reading Rebooting
Positions
I had not thought about positions in a while. They came to mind today and I had to look up Gor slave positions, just for the fun of it. I found this delightful description of training poses, which both appalls and thrills me. Slave Positions Gor slave material still gives me the guilty pleasure that … Continue reading Positions
Thanksgiving
(With apologies to M for not writing "something for us to enjoy.") 🙄 😘 Things I appreciate today: My weekend away!! Omg, soooo much.While I was away, I did this ritual I saw on the Daily OM to clear my chakras. It was pretty lovely. I'm settling into my new normal. I seem to have … Continue reading Thanksgiving
So I Ran Away Too…
Yep. Packed up my bags and am spending a weekend in a motel on the beach. Not spending time with anybody, carry-out food only, just me, walking on the beach and soaking in the stillness. No, I have not met anyone interesting, much less kinky. But that’s ok.
Veterans Day
Remembering Veterans... “For the dead and the living, we must bear witness.” ~~ Elie Wiesel And this song, which always makes me cry, for lots of reasons. https://youtu.be/BugBwt2ESpo As you might guess, I am pretty much anti-war, but I'm not a true pacifist. I can support the people who are soldiers and recognize the need … Continue reading Veterans Day
For Jade
This is for my dear friend, Jade, who's going through a really hard time right now. If you can't see the image, it says: May you be surrounded by love, light, and beautiful vibes ~ Tam Willing
Olivia 