i want to try... finishing the things i start. Little things - making sure the last dish is in the washer, the pans washed and put away, the table and the counters wiped. The laundry washed, dried, and put away - the whole load, even the last pillowcase or wash cloth. Cooking all the food i buy - … Continue reading Something i want to try
How Does Content Look?
Well, it might look like this: (young woman walking on beach) Or maybe like this, if you're a non-beach person: (Young woman looking out over mountains) Or if you use the Alarm Clock Sex Toy, it might look like this: (woman's face, perhaps orgasmic) The "alarm clock" looks like this: and you wear it to … Continue reading How Does Content Look?
Where I want to be…
My answer to this is pretty much always "Walking on the beach." But i'm content where i am right now. Lots of pleasant things happening, MP's health is a bit better, lots of planning happening, changes and challenges at work... life is good. (i think i just answered tomorrow's prompt but that's ok.) Also - … Continue reading Where I want to be…
September Prompts
i found these from Han over on Infinitesimal Thoughts and thought it would be fun to do some of them as we move into September. Of course, that doesn't start til tomorrow, but I thought I'd post the list today in case someone else wants to use them. (Ok, today is the 1st - wrote … Continue reading September Prompts
Belated Sunday Check-in
i am still here - doing house things. Downsizing my stuff. Pushing us forward on the path of getting ready to sell the house. No exciting developments from fetlife - or real life, for that matter. And that's ok. i'm in a phase of transition anyhow. Still not losing weight, not working on my book, … Continue reading Belated Sunday Check-in
Phallic Symbols
i have some fascination with cock worship, both as a practice and as an academic topic. There's some really interesting material about cock worship as a religious practice in this article in Cracked, and maybe i'll talk more about that another time. But today, all of that is just to serve as lead in to this … Continue reading Phallic Symbols
The Fair
i went to the fair yesterday. By myself, so there was time and space for about 5o years of memories of the fair. Early in the day, i saw a number of people carrying around yardsticks. It made me smile, remembering the time, probably 6 or 7 years ago now, that a Dom i was … Continue reading The Fair
He Ghosted
RS, our potential guy, ghosted. Last thing he said was "looking forward to meeting you both," and MP emailed him a suggestion that we get together for dinner - that was Sunday. Nothing since then. It's ok. Seriously. Maybe he thought i was going to send him a tit pic and was disappointed, maybe he … Continue reading He Ghosted
Intricate Links
i believe there are intricate links between BDSM and trauma and healing. i don't understand how it works, but i believe it connects. I just don't know how. i don't even know what kind of connection it is, i just know it's there. In any case. i know that being spanked a couple of nights … Continue reading Intricate Links
Yikes!
Ok, y'all, it looks like this might actually happen. Pictures have been exchanged with RS (clothes on) and he and MP have exchanged email and - um, i think we're going to probably actually meet for dinner. Seriously, y'all. i have never been one to dream of a threesome. Two men was not on my … Continue reading Yikes!
Olivia 