Ok, maybe not a lot of fun. A little fun. Here are some questions I’m contemplating in 2021. What is my theme song?What is my word of the year?What is my motto?What about my personal mission statement? I did a dance class today, and did much better than I would have thought possible. (As in … Continue reading More Fun in 2021

"And now let us believe in a long year that is given to us, new, untouched, full of things that have never been, full of work that has never been done, full of tasks, claims, and demands; and let us see that we learn to take it without letting fall too much of what it … Continue reading Here We Are 2021

Mean Girl Warning: In this post, I’m going to laugh at some random “older white dominant silver fox.” Yes, I’m the mean girl here...* And yes, he really said that. His message starts out: “I’m an older white dominant silver fox. Yes I have a full head of silver grey hair. For the last 4 … Continue reading Fetlife Funnies

It's been a tough year in so many ways for so many of us. Here's hoping you're finding some joy in the moments. Here's a musical treat to brighten your day... https://youtu.be/XJfoWcFTj1s

This is one of my favorite terms - don't ask me why. Or, you can ask me, but I don't know why. It's just so delightfully descriptive. I had to look it up, of course, to make sure I knew what it meant. I found this definition: Hot mess is used to describe a particularly … Continue reading A Hot Mess

I think between my weekend away and my holiday weekend, which was lazy and pleasant, I've done a full reboot on my self. My tarot cards arrived today. They are lovely, and I'm looking forward to spending time with them and getting to know them. Here's the deck I got: It's called Earth Warriors Oracle, … Continue reading Rebooting

I had not thought about positions in a while. They came to mind today and I had to look up Gor slave positions, just for the fun of it. I found this delightful description of training poses, which both appalls and thrills me. Slave Positions Gor slave material still gives me the guilty pleasure that … Continue reading Positions

(With apologies to M for not writing "something for us to enjoy.") 🙄 😘 Things I appreciate today: My weekend away!! Omg, soooo much.While I was away, I did this ritual I saw on the Daily OM to clear my chakras. It was pretty lovely. I'm settling into my new normal. I seem to have … Continue reading Thanksgiving