i found these from Han over on Infinitesimal Thoughts and thought it would be fun to do some of them as we move into September. Of course, that doesn't start til tomorrow, but I thought I'd post the list today in case someone else wants to use them. (Ok, today is the 1st - wrote … Continue reading September Prompts
Just me
Belated Sunday Check-in
i am still here - doing house things. Downsizing my stuff. Pushing us forward on the path of getting ready to sell the house. No exciting developments from fetlife - or real life, for that matter. And that's ok. i'm in a phase of transition anyhow. Still not losing weight, not working on my book, … Continue reading Belated Sunday Check-in
He Ghosted
RS, our potential guy, ghosted. Last thing he said was "looking forward to meeting you both," and MP emailed him a suggestion that we get together for dinner - that was Sunday. Nothing since then. It's ok. Seriously. Maybe he thought i was going to send him a tit pic and was disappointed, maybe he … Continue reading He Ghosted
Intricate Links
i believe there are intricate links between BDSM and trauma and healing. i don't understand how it works, but i believe it connects. I just don't know how. i don't even know what kind of connection it is, i just know it's there. In any case. i know that being spanked a couple of nights … Continue reading Intricate Links
Things are happening…
Three cool things happened yesterday. i'd been chatting, super briefly, with a Dom in a nearby city who seemed like a nice guy. But when MP agreed to be involved in finding me a Dom play partner, i promised him that i wouldn't exclude him from any relationship i might have like that. So a … Continue reading Things are happening…
Thoughts (vanilla flavored)
i ran across this quote today: "One of the biggest misconceptions about connecting is seeking, first, to be liked. In fact, the counterintuitive way to get someone to like you is in knowing this core truth: If they like the way they feel when around you, they will like you. In fact, they will project … Continue reading Thoughts (vanilla flavored)
Sunday Check-in; 8-14-16
You will not be surprised to learn that i desire this state: “A balanced inner calmness radiates from a peaceful centre. It neither craves others' approval nor rejects others' presence. It neither pulls towards nor pushes away. It has a reverent attitude towards life and all its inhabitants.” ― Donna Goddard, The Love of Devotion … Continue reading Sunday Check-in; 8-14-16
44 Odd Things You Don’t Know About Me
Just realized that the font size is seriously messed up on this. Decided it was too perfectionistic to go back and fix it all. Just apologizing instead. I found this on Fiona's blog who found it on Ronnie's who spotted it at Continued Journey : 1. Do you like blue cheese? Yes - love it. 2. Have you ever … Continue reading 44 Odd Things You Don’t Know About Me
Check-in (8-7) and more on friends
i was reading this article this morning about friendship - the first paragraph pulled me into it, where they say: "THINK of all the people with whom you interact during the course of a day, week, month and year. The many souls with whom you might exchange a greeting or give a warm embrace; engage … Continue reading Check-in (8-7) and more on friends
Old Friends
i've been running around Blogland (for a few minutes anyhow) and discovering how many old friends are gone. A Hidden Slave, from so long ago. i knew she was gone, i just went over to see if , by some wild chance, she was back. She wasn't. Kaya at Under His Hand, so tragically. i … Continue reading Old Friends
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