So, it turns out that the "Domme" who messaged me is actually not. He's a complete newbie who seems to be a bit confused about terms and roles and - you know, whatever. I had not really bargained for that. Don't ask me why i'm still messaging with him. He's pretty clearly looking for a … Continue reading Frigging Fetlife & Maudlin Musing
Just me
TMI Tuesday – Confessions (on Wednesday)
1. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, your future, what would you want to know? Oh - I don't think I want to know anything! You know? I kind of thought I did want to know some stuff, but when I started thinking about it? Nah. I'll pass … Continue reading TMI Tuesday – Confessions (on Wednesday)
Monday Quote
I've noticed that i've been "followed" by some Christian bloggers - lured unsuspecting by some post that i marked "spiritual, " i suppose. i can see how it would happen, although i think they're going to end up shocked. But then it occurred to me that the template i'm using has all the widegets hidden, … Continue reading Monday Quote
Sunday Silence
I have the house to myself again today - MP left on Thursday so it's been quiet around here. Yesterday, since i didn't get to go to the play party, i went to the March for Our Lives, which was pretty phenomenal. Then i took myself out for dinner, where i sat outside for the … Continue reading Sunday Silence
FFF – 3-23-18 (on Saturday)
i was getting ready to do one of those "oh, i'm a terrible person, i haven't lost any more weight and i'm not doing the things i said i'd do and...' And then you all would have (probably) said kind things and i would have felt cheered up but still felt like a failure. A … Continue reading FFF – 3-23-18 (on Saturday)
Maybe
There's an event here Saturday. Here, Where-i-Live. Yes, a kink event. MP is out of town. That makes it easy. Don't have to have any conversation about it. i might go. i might not go. My social anxiety might flare up and make it seem like a horrible idea. i'm not as young as i … Continue reading Maybe
Spring Solstice!
With all the joys of spring. A new date for my house closing. Birds cheeping outside my window. Warmth and sunshine - the winds from the east, bringing new beginnings. Blessed Ostara Hoping your day is full of joy and love...
Sunday Special
I've spent part of the morning planning the rest of the month and next quarter. I've started using a paper and pen planner, something I haven't done since I had a "Daytimer" in my pre-computer days. i bought myself some fancy gel pens and have color coded my life, which is something i've never done … Continue reading Sunday Special
FFF – 3-16-18
5 pounds. I've lost 5 pounds since the week of February 10th. I just looked back at my planner, and there it was. I weighed 5 pounds more that week. Wooohooo!! If I lost a pound a week for the next - oh, let's say the next 26 weeks - I would be at a … Continue reading FFF – 3-16-18
Guilty Pleasures
I was talking about one of my guilty pleasure in the comments (which happens to be reading Nora Roberts novels.) And it made me wonder - what do other people consider their guilty pleasures? Not something really bad, just something that you kind of keep private because you think people might judge you if they … Continue reading Guilty Pleasures
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