Can of worms, Jack-in-the-box, Pandora's box - pick your analogy. Doesn't matter. The can is open, Jack's out and won't go back and the lid to the box is just standing ajar. Sigh. Yep, talking about the toys was the slippery slope, the gateway to hell for the conversations I've been avoiding for a while … Continue reading The Can of Worms…
Author: olivia
It’s Mother’s Day
Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers I know - whether you're a bio mother, an adoptive mothers, a step-mother, or a just-like-a-mother Mother, hoping you're doing something nice for yourself today. Also this: (The card says: Thinking of You and has little drawings of different bouquets of flowers. Under each one is a phrase: … Continue reading It’s Mother’s Day
FFF – 5-11
So let's just talk about weight. I have pretty much quit worrying about it - i continue to hover between 164 and 166. Since i am a short person -not a "little person" as i understand people who are seriously height challenged prefer to be called - but definitely a short person. Like 5 foot. … Continue reading FFF – 5-11
It’s a Problem
Years ago, when MP was my Sir and I thought I was going to live submissively ever after, he took all my toys and locked them up in his toy bag. Not that I had a ton of toys, but I had a few. Vibrating dildos, a rabbit or two. I don't even remember what … Continue reading It’s a Problem
Things I Wish I’d Known About Kink from the Start
I really like this. Thanks to Leathers at Journey for a Lifetime for also sharing it!! Edited to add: I posted this quickly, from my phone, right before my plane took off. I should have said thanks to The Ochre Muse for writing it in the first place!
FFF 5-4 (on Saturday – um, Sunday…)
Yep, i'm a day two days late to the FFF party. As you might have guessed, that may be because i've done poorly (again) and even my glucose numbers are starting to rise (a bit.) My weight is still up and down around the same point. Last week, I was at about 40,000 steps for … Continue reading FFF 5-4 (on Saturday – um, Sunday…)
The Quote Challenge
I was over on Ms. Dixie Wrecked's blog, Smiling Through the Evil, and saw that they had accepted a "Quote Challenge." They didn't challenge anyone else, but when I read it, I thought, "Me, me, Call on me!!" I love quotes - as you may have noticed! So I took up the challenge, and then … Continue reading The Quote Challenge
My Soul in a Vise Grip – and What About those Chakras?
{Saturday} Ok, I've been feeling a bit less like pond scum since I was assured that there would be no problem finding my cat a good home, so that's helpful. I'm discovering that now I'm just really sad. That sense of relief I was expecting has not kicked in yet and I keep crying. Little … Continue reading My Soul in a Vise Grip – and What About those Chakras?
Sex, Power, and Leadership: An online Conference {Free}
Sex, Power, and Leadership: A Free Online Conference It occurs to me that some of you might be interested in this free online conference which starts Monday. I should have mentioned it sooner, but better late than... you know, never. Consensual Power Exchange as an Antidote to Patriarchy is one of the segments. The line … Continue reading Sex, Power, and Leadership: An online Conference {Free}
FFF 4-27
So this morning, i jumped on the scale and discovered that i was at almost exactly the same weight i was at last week, and possibly the week before that. I've been fluctuating by about .4 pounds - point 4, not 4. Today's number was at the bottom of the range, but still. So, in … Continue reading FFF 4-27
Olivia 