I've spent part of the morning planning the rest of the month and next quarter. I've started using a paper and pen planner, something I haven't done since I had a "Daytimer" in my pre-computer days. i bought myself some fancy gel pens and have color coded my life, which is something i've never done … Continue reading Sunday Special
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FFF – 3-16-18
5 pounds. I've lost 5 pounds since the week of February 10th. I just looked back at my planner, and there it was. I weighed 5 pounds more that week. Wooohooo!! If I lost a pound a week for the next - oh, let's say the next 26 weeks - I would be at a … Continue reading FFF – 3-16-18
Guilty Pleasures
I was talking about one of my guilty pleasure in the comments (which happens to be reading Nora Roberts novels.) And it made me wonder - what do other people consider their guilty pleasures? Not something really bad, just something that you kind of keep private because you think people might judge you if they … Continue reading Guilty Pleasures
Bonus Question – from Jz
Thanks to Jz, I have this fascinating question, which i’ve spent an inordinate amount of time pondering. You have won a special magical vacation: For one year, you will live the life of any character in fiction that you choose. Who do you pick? My first thought was, aha! I can be any BDSM character … Continue reading Bonus Question – from Jz
A Story of Being Called to Oneself
Today, i'm feeling overwhelmed and worried. I feel like the foundation i've been standing on has turned into sand and i'm slipping around in it. i'm working on trusting myself to reach out to others for help where i need it and to resolve the new problems that have come up as best i can. … Continue reading A Story of Being Called to Oneself
Some Other Questions
Actually, I'm kind of cheating here - there were a couple of comments on my last post that included questions, and I answered them in the comments, but now I'm thinking it might be a blog post all by itself. First, I wanted to share this: And then - Amy had asked a question about … Continue reading Some Other Questions
The Spanking Question – from Amy
Thanks, Amy! Love this question. What was the first spanking you ever received as an adult and would you say it was playful? Sexual? A punishment? Oh, sadly, the first spankings I received as an adult were the result of sharing my secret liking for spankings with some very vanilla guy I was dating, who … Continue reading The Spanking Question – from Amy
FFF- 3-9-18
Well, here we go. Still eating well. Yes! Still not meeting my movement goals. Might have lost a pound. At least, it looks like I've lost about 3 1/2 all together. Haven't sorted anything - in fact, I am less organized than ever. 😦 So it occurs to me that my goals are strictly aspirational … Continue reading FFF- 3-9-18
Some Big Questions Answered – from Ancilla
Ancilla ksst asked: Are you married? Nope. Been married twice - once for 17 years, once for 3. Can't imagine ever doing that again. Do you have a D/s relationship? I got the impression that it ended, is that right? But are you still together or single? How long did the D/s relationship last? I did … Continue reading Some Big Questions Answered – from Ancilla
Another Question Answered -from Lea
From Lea: When people come to you for help, what do they usually want help with? Oooooh, that's a fun question! You know, people come to therapy because they're unhappy with the way their lives are - or because someone else is threatening them with some kind of unpleasant consequences if they don't come. But … Continue reading Another Question Answered -from Lea
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