In case you can't see the meme 10 Things to Say Instead of 'Stop Crying': 1. It's okay to be sad. 2. This is really hard for you. 3. I'm here for you. 4. Tell me about it. 5. I hear you. 6. That was really scary, sad, etc. 7. I will help you work … Continue reading For My Friends Who Are Sad…
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Saturday Sunshine
In case you couldn't see the meme: Mary Oliver: "I Worried" I worried a lot. Will the garden grow, will the rivers flow in the right direction, will the earth turn as it was taught, and if not how shall I correct it? Was I right, was I wrong, will I be forgiven, can I … Continue reading Saturday Sunshine
FFF – 2-9
I was reading Vesta's submission - she was talking about her husband. "What I have noticed is that as my husband became immersed in the body form, in his own body form, a sense of space quietly began to be lost, like air being sucked out of a blow up swimming pool that has developed a … Continue reading FFF – 2-9
When I’m Sixty-Two…
Ok, the song is when i'm 64, and i'm not going to be 64 for a couple more years. But I am about to turn 62 in a few short weeks. And still appraising and re-appraising my life. “We have not yet arrived, but every point at which we stop requires a re-definition of our … Continue reading When I’m Sixty-Two…
FFF
For fucks sake - oh wait, no, that would be FFS. FFF is For Fit Friday, started by my friend Fondles! And i was supposed to post my goals yesterday, only I didn't even think about it til I saw abby's post today. But i was traveling and working and i pretty much lost track … Continue reading FFF
What About a BDSM-Based Life Coach?
I'm imagining someone - a Dom - who's willing to help people - um, submissive people - meet whatever life goals they have. Only instead of coaching, they use a paddle. And other disciplinary techniques. I have a job coach now, well, a "leadership" coach. I'm sure it will be interesting and probably helpful. But … Continue reading What About a BDSM-Based Life Coach?
Happy New Year!
Wishing you all the best in 2018!
Merry Christmas!
Everyone is feeling better - the presents got wrapped - the stockings are stuffed (and overstuffed.) I have the quiet of the house all to myself, just waiting for everyone else to wake up. If you celebrate this holiday, I hope your day is full of joy and love.
And a Sickly Christmas
Really, if i were you, i would not even read this. There is nothing kinky here, nothing particularly interesting. So keep your expectations low. Real low. My grandson was sick a couple of days ago -throwing up sick, throwing up big-time sick. Last night, my daughter got sick and went to bed early (for her.) … Continue reading And a Sickly Christmas
Holiday of Humility
Not the kinky kind. You know this is my secret diary, right? So i share the things here that i won't talk about other places. So here's this one. I have an old crown on one of my front teeth. It had come off about 3 times when i lived Where-i-Used-to-Live and my dentist had … Continue reading Holiday of Humility
