I am still chatting with some people on Fetlife. Not with the first guy who started a conversation, I think I scared him off. Lol, no really. He asked me a question. He wanted to know my opinion on the Dom/sub vs Master/slave distinction. In retrospect, I think he just wanted a short "people should … Continue reading And IRL

Several things made today lovely. Last night I decided that I wasn’t going to start working before 8 a.m. anymore. That might not seem like a big deal, or it might seem like something I should have done ages ago. But it felt good to get up today and know that I wasn’t going to … Continue reading Sunny Sunday

Not that I owe anyone an explanation, but after my last post, Duncan Lorry, over at Your Sex Interview was commenting on the "Caregivers who want to have sex" name of the Facebook group I just left. Lol, yes, that does sound bad. And of course that's not what the group calls itself, just my … Continue reading An Explanation

So, I left that group - the Caregivers Who Want to Have Sex group. Funniest thing, I tried to write some more of the fantasy, but it just didn't go anywhere good. I tried several approaches, but no matter what I did, it ended with an "ew," not an "ahhhhhh." I thought that was a … Continue reading The Power of Fantasy

"Are you sure you're in the right place?" he messaged. It was just a chat message on Facebook, from someone I'd never met, but somehow I could picture him with one eyebrow raised. I laughed. And messaged back, "Oh, probably not. I rarely am." It was a hook-up group of sorts where we'd met, on … Continue reading In the Wrong Place… a fantasy

Living life in the fast lane over here - ok, not really. I just like to say that, and "Just walking on the wild side" too, but you know, neither of those are exactly true. I do have some exciting interesting fairly mundane updates to share. 😀 The Noom thing is going well. I've now … Continue reading More Good Times in The Land of Vanilla

So, this thing happened and, as is sometimes the case, this is still the best place to share it. So I'd been feeling the lack of relationship and struggling with what to do. I had joined this FB group for caregivers that was really helpful in giving me some perspective on my life and my … Continue reading Just Giggling Over Here

Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com First of all, I have a follow up to my "Wounded" post. I talked with the thoughtless person who had hurt my feelings, and it turns out that they thought my heart-felt offer was a pity offer. They didn't want my pity. Which - you know, who does? No body. … Continue reading Sunday Joy

Something happened tonight that deeply hurt my feelings. It was a little thing that happened. I made an offer, and the other person responded to it with a sound of contempt. Pft. I think that's how you write it. Just a little sound, a puff of air really. Totally dismissive. They didn't say anything else. … Continue reading Wounded

Nora, over at Finding Strength in My Submission, has been reading a book by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny. I was delighted that she was enjoying the book and really appreciated her thoughts about it. You can read her reflections (so far) here: Bookworm: Review of Real Service continued. That post contains the links to … Continue reading Revisiting Master Raven Kaldera