So, clearly my plan to have time/ find time/ make time to write while i'm on the road this week hasn't happened yet. And i don't expect it to happen today. Sigh. That's ok. I'm getting ready to go for a walk along a river, and am feeling good about life. Just popping in to … Continue reading Best Laid Plans…
Just me
Where I want to be…
My answer to this is pretty much always "Walking on the beach." But i'm content where i am right now. Lots of pleasant things happening, MP's health is a bit better, lots of planning happening, changes and challenges at work... life is good. (i think i just answered tomorrow's prompt but that's ok.) Also - … Continue reading Where I want to be…
September Prompts
i found these from Han over on Infinitesimal Thoughts and thought it would be fun to do some of them as we move into September. Of course, that doesn't start til tomorrow, but I thought I'd post the list today in case someone else wants to use them. (Ok, today is the 1st - wrote … Continue reading September Prompts
Belated Sunday Check-in
i am still here - doing house things. Downsizing my stuff. Pushing us forward on the path of getting ready to sell the house. No exciting developments from fetlife - or real life, for that matter. And that's ok. i'm in a phase of transition anyhow. Still not losing weight, not working on my book, … Continue reading Belated Sunday Check-in
He Ghosted
RS, our potential guy, ghosted. Last thing he said was "looking forward to meeting you both," and MP emailed him a suggestion that we get together for dinner - that was Sunday. Nothing since then. It's ok. Seriously. Maybe he thought i was going to send him a tit pic and was disappointed, maybe he … Continue reading He Ghosted
Intricate Links
i believe there are intricate links between BDSM and trauma and healing. i don't understand how it works, but i believe it connects. I just don't know how. i don't even know what kind of connection it is, i just know it's there. In any case. i know that being spanked a couple of nights … Continue reading Intricate Links
Things are happening…
Three cool things happened yesterday. i'd been chatting, super briefly, with a Dom in a nearby city who seemed like a nice guy. But when MP agreed to be involved in finding me a Dom play partner, i promised him that i wouldn't exclude him from any relationship i might have like that. So a … Continue reading Things are happening…
Thoughts (vanilla flavored)
i ran across this quote today: "One of the biggest misconceptions about connecting is seeking, first, to be liked. In fact, the counterintuitive way to get someone to like you is in knowing this core truth: If they like the way they feel when around you, they will like you. In fact, they will project … Continue reading Thoughts (vanilla flavored)
Sunday Check-in; 8-14-16
You will not be surprised to learn that i desire this state: “A balanced inner calmness radiates from a peaceful centre. It neither craves others' approval nor rejects others' presence. It neither pulls towards nor pushes away. It has a reverent attitude towards life and all its inhabitants.” ― Donna Goddard, The Love of Devotion … Continue reading Sunday Check-in; 8-14-16
44 Odd Things You Don’t Know About Me
Just realized that the font size is seriously messed up on this. Decided it was too perfectionistic to go back and fix it all. Just apologizing instead. I found this on Fiona's blog who found it on Ronnie's who spotted it at Continued Journey : 1. Do you like blue cheese? Yes - love it. 2. Have you ever … Continue reading 44 Odd Things You Don’t Know About Me
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