It's not Story of O, i remind myself. You're not getting dropped off at the door, stripped of underwear, handed over to people who will take your clothes away. You've already gotten yourself waxed, pussy, legs and underarms are all hair free zones. All you have to do is check into your hotel, get ready, … Continue reading The Fantasy Begins
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Fantasy Abounds
He sent me a list of his toys. He = OG. Toys = belts and floggers and paddles and crops. A cane - not rattan but fiberglass. All the expected props - collars and cuffs, ball gags and butt plugs, oh, my. He likes the same (kinky) books I like. Not that he agreed with … Continue reading Fantasy Abounds
Ridiculously Excited
Y'all. So i've been chatting with some people on fet. The one I told you about - Jay - is still around. Young guy - the 26 year old - has drifted away, which is good. There's someone my age who might be fun, we'll see. He went to a munch last night, so at … Continue reading Ridiculously Excited
Olivia and Monkey’s Day on the Town
Really, I should have titled this post "Gifts." i'm sitting here in a delightful Airbnb, burning the meditation candle that jade gave me, looking at the beautiful stone that is supposed to help me be more in touch with my own intuitive self (pictured below with the little pouch she gave me to keep it … Continue reading Olivia and Monkey’s Day on the Town
Fetlife Adventures
In the last 48 hours, four people have approached me on Fetlife!! How does that even happen? They are all from here, or close enough. One of them is 26 years old and wants a mistress who will fuck him with a strap-on. Um, i'm pretty sure that's not me. Not seeing it. One of … Continue reading Fetlife Adventures
Love our Lurkers
It's that time of year again - when we say thank you to the people who read our blogs and try to lure the lurkers into coming out and saying "hi," back. Thank you so much for reading!! There's no actual pressure to comment - but if you want to say hi I'd love … Continue reading Love our Lurkers
At the Coffee Shop
I'm writing this from a new coffee shop - new to me, that is. It's a cozy, let's-drink-tea-and-sing-Kumbaya kind of place. Lots of wood, esoteric wall hangings and baked goods with all natural ingredients. The first thing I notice is the couple sitting to the right of the door. He is a middle aged man, … Continue reading At the Coffee Shop
Happy Halloween!
Halloween is definitely more fun when there are grands involved. 🙂 Did you know that, according to Snopes, there has not been one single documented incident of someone randomly giving out poisoned candy. Not. One. I think about all the candy we meticulously inspected for signs of tampering. All the darn candy we through away. … Continue reading Happy Halloween!
Me and My Sign
Once upon a time, in the very long ago, "What's your sign?" was an actual pick-up line in bars. Maybe not a good one, and it became a joke, but it really was a thing. I don't put any stock in horoscopes predicting the future, but always enjoyed reading about people's signs. My favorite resource … Continue reading Me and My Sign
Top 100 Sex Bloggers Nominations – Now
NOMINATIONS TIME! With a couple of minor edits, I reposted this from Temperature's Rising Thank you, Mrs. Fever. The ever-resourceful Molly Moore, who – in addition to managing her own blog – runs a variety of sex-positive blogging projects, is once again tackling the task of curating an annual “Top 100” list of active … Continue reading Top 100 Sex Bloggers Nominations – Now
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