I have a bunch of thoughts floating around in my head - if I knew how to do it, I'd put them here in bubbles, like a cartoon, or circles. But I don't know how to do that here, so you'll have to imagine it. Here are my thoughts, in no particular order. I Believe: … Continue reading Ideas
What About a BDSM-Based Life Coach?
I'm imagining someone - a Dom - who's willing to help people - um, submissive people - meet whatever life goals they have. Only instead of coaching, they use a paddle. And other disciplinary techniques. I have a job coach now, well, a "leadership" coach. I'm sure it will be interesting and probably helpful. But … Continue reading What About a BDSM-Based Life Coach?
TMI Tuesday, January 4
But first - thank you to those of you who commented on yesterday's post. I deeply appreciate the insight and wisdom of the people I know here. Your willingness to look into yourself and share your perspective means a lot to me. Now for TMI Tuesday. (I know it's Wednesday -so what?) Borrowing this from … Continue reading TMI Tuesday, January 4
Submission Goes Mainstream
I read this lovely article in The Elephant Journal about a submissive woman who's talking publicly about her lifestyle. You can and should read the whole article here. But this part in particular was nice to read. She is a submissive. Her life, day in and day out, is lived with the mindset of being … Continue reading Submission Goes Mainstream
Wishing you all the best in 2018!
Happy New Year!
Here Comes the New Year…
Arbitrary of course. January 1st is not really new and 2017 slides seamlessly into 2018 for real. But the "new year" is a reasonable way to mark time, so I'll go with it. (I'm sure that's a great relief to the universe, right?) My tooth is fixed - yay and double yay!! The dentist was … Continue reading Here Comes the New Year…
Merry Christmas!
Everyone is feeling better - the presents got wrapped - the stockings are stuffed (and overstuffed.) I have the quiet of the house all to myself, just waiting for everyone else to wake up. If you celebrate this holiday, I hope your day is full of joy and love.
And a Sickly Christmas
Really, if i were you, i would not even read this. There is nothing kinky here, nothing particularly interesting. So keep your expectations low. Real low. My grandson was sick a couple of days ago -throwing up sick, throwing up big-time sick. Last night, my daughter got sick and went to bed early (for her.) … Continue reading And a Sickly Christmas
Holiday of Humility
Not the kinky kind. You know this is my secret diary, right? So i share the things here that i won't talk about other places. So here's this one. I have an old crown on one of my front teeth. It had come off about 3 times when i lived Where-i-Used-to-Live and my dentist had … Continue reading Holiday of Humility
Reflection
Where does all that feeling even come from? All that serving and pleasing stuff. I'm mad at myself for even feeling that way - I didn't even quite know all that was there {still there} until i wrote it. Fuck. My energy does not need to be spent on cock worship and fucking. OG is … Continue reading Reflection
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