”Touch yourself,” he said. She was splayed out naked in the overstuffed armchair, legs stretched over the arms of the chair. Totally exposed. But she turned her head away, lowered her eyes, as if that would let her escape his gaze. “Ok,” he said with a shrug. He knew how hard this was for her, … Continue reading He Said
A Hot Mess
This is one of my favorite terms - don't ask me why. Or, you can ask me, but I don't know why. It's just so delightfully descriptive. I had to look it up, of course, to make sure I knew what it meant. I found this definition: Hot mess is used to describe a particularly … Continue reading A Hot Mess
Kinky Advent Calendar – Day 2
2. Candy Canes Whether you are going for the sweet treat or the impact version, show us your best D/s candy cane ideas. I hope y'all don't think I'm going to write some full blown fantasy for every day of Advent, cause - yeah, probably not gonna do that. But I plan to post something... … Continue reading Kinky Advent Calendar – Day 2
Advent Calendar- Day 1
Get the Tinsel Out– Find a creative way to show your Dominant or your submissive side by celebrating with tinsel. “Tinsel?’ She giggled. “I don’t know what we could do with tinsel. If I were a pony-girl, we could tie it to my tail. But I’m not.” He laughed. “True. But I didn’t get this … Continue reading Advent Calendar- Day 1
The SafeworD/s Club has an event
There’s a blog by that name - The SafewordD/s Club - which is pretty fascinating. They have membership and a chat room. I haven’t joined yet (at least not at the time I’m writing this- that could have changed by the time I hit “publish.”). It is NOT an on-line dating site. It is NOT … Continue reading The SafeworD/s Club has an event
Rebooting
I think between my weekend away and my holiday weekend, which was lazy and pleasant, I've done a full reboot on my self. My tarot cards arrived today. They are lovely, and I'm looking forward to spending time with them and getting to know them. Here's the deck I got: It's called Earth Warriors Oracle, … Continue reading Rebooting
Positions
I had not thought about positions in a while. They came to mind today and I had to look up Gor slave positions, just for the fun of it. I found this delightful description of training poses, which both appalls and thrills me. Slave Positions Gor slave material still gives me the guilty pleasure that … Continue reading Positions
Thanksgiving
(With apologies to M for not writing "something for us to enjoy.") 🙄 😘 Things I appreciate today: My weekend away!! Omg, soooo much.While I was away, I did this ritual I saw on the Daily OM to clear my chakras. It was pretty lovely. I'm settling into my new normal. I seem to have … Continue reading Thanksgiving
So I Ran Away Too…
Yep. Packed up my bags and am spending a weekend in a motel on the beach. Not spending time with anybody, carry-out food only, just me, walking on the beach and soaking in the stillness. No, I have not met anyone interesting, much less kinky. But that’s ok.
Veterans Day
Remembering Veterans... “For the dead and the living, we must bear witness.” ~~ Elie Wiesel And this song, which always makes me cry, for lots of reasons. https://youtu.be/BugBwt2ESpo As you might guess, I am pretty much anti-war, but I'm not a true pacifist. I can support the people who are soldiers and recognize the need … Continue reading Veterans Day
