I don’t do resolutions. I barely do goals. I do set intentions, although I don’t have any specific ones for 2026 yet. And for several years, I’ve picked a word of the year that goes with my intentions. This year, I haven’t had a clue what my word was going to be. Last year it … Continue reading Word of the Year 2026
A Tawse?
I'm not planning to keep youall posted on every little thing that happens in my life, not even the exciting little things. But after my last post, my friend Nora commented, sharing from her own experience a couple of ways I might improve the effectiveness of my self-spanking. Nora advised me that standing straight when … Continue reading A Tawse?
Me and The Belt
You may already know that the belt is my favorite spanking tool. So you won’t be surprised that I bought a belt because a Dom I’ve been talking to thought it would be good for me to use it on myself. It’s a simple leather belt, but already buttery soft, and I was pleased that … Continue reading Me and The Belt
Christmas Music Two
Just about every year I share some of my favorite non-traditional Christmas music. If you’ve been around a while, you have probably seen all of these before, but it’s tradition for me to share them and you might want to hear them again. If you’re new, I hope you enjoy them. The Christians and the … Continue reading Christmas Music Two
Winter Solstice – 2025
Winter Solstice, as you probably know, marks the turning of the seasons, the longest night that leads us to the beginning of shorter nights and more light. It’s my favorite of the Pagan celebrations because I love the returning light. Although, as I’ve been reminded lately, the light is always there, whether we can see … Continue reading Winter Solstice – 2025
Seduced
Seduced by a shiny new car and a sense of freedom. I feel shackled by my life sometimes, and not in a good way. Not velvet cuffs or Shibari. Shackled by duty and obligation and trying to do the right thing for the collective good. A friend of mine suggested that I begin to think … Continue reading Seduced
This Time of Year
Whether you celebrate Hanukkah, Yule, Kwanzaa, or Christmas, it is beginning to be that time of year. As usual, there are particular Christmas songs that I like to share because they are a little bit different than what people generally listen to. Sometimes I do a whole bunch of them on the same post, this … Continue reading This Time of Year
OPB {Other People’s Blogs}
I love reading other people, blogs, almost as much as I love writing my own. Yesterday, I stumbled across a couple of new blogs that I really appreciated. So of course, I wanted to share them with you. This poem is by Dray Orion Tell me where it hurts.Not the surface pain—not the sting that … Continue reading OPB {Other People’s Blogs}
Writer’s Block
I know, I haven’t been here in forever. (Well, maybe not forever, but a while. Seems like a long time to me.) It’s Thanksgiving, and I thought I’d do a list of my gratitudes. And it is mostly the same ole blessings most of us count - a roof over my head. Ok, more than … Continue reading Writer’s Block
Implementation: Behind the Scenes of Delilah’s Adventures with Master Graham
The story has ended but how did it begin? How did we plan the storyline and decide who did what and when? Did we always agree? We thought we might ask each other some questions and see whether the answers were interesting. James: So Olivia, how did it begin? Olivia: A lot like this is … Continue reading Implementation: Behind the Scenes of Delilah’s Adventures with Master Graham
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