The belt is the warm-up, although we pause between rounds. Stripped of my clothes, the belt folded over in one hand, I am slipping deeper into obedience and submission. Maybe it is a form of subspace, this total focus on doing what he tells me to do. He directs me slowly. "Put the belt down, … Continue reading The Weekend – Part Two
Good Things…
Good things come to those who wait. That’s what they say anyhow. And sometimes, it’s true. Almost 4 years ago, I stumbled across a picture used as a banner on pixabay. I was really taken with it. It had a purple butterfly on one side and some simple grass and flowers on the other, and … Continue reading Good Things…
The Weekend
"Pull your pants down to your knees." "Yes, Sir." "Now your panties, yes, down to your knees. Now, lift your sweater. I want to see my belt." I obey. Standing in front of him, still wearing my sweater, shoes and socks, but exposed from my waist to my knees, his leather belt encircling me. "There's … Continue reading The Weekend
Not Yet
Anticipation. My body feels different. Or I feel different about my body. So aware of my movements, aware of the belt next to my skin. I rub my hands on my thighs. Even clothed, the sensations move down my leg as I stroke, warming the palm of my hand as it caresses. Moving my fingers … Continue reading Not Yet
A Submissive Spirit
I am driven by a need to describe what submission is for me. You may have already noticed that, since that may be the heart of my blog. But there have only been bits and pieces of time when I was in a D/s relationship. The rest of it is mostly longing and fantasy. I … Continue reading A Submissive Spirit
Valentine’s Day 2026
Generally, when I write about Valentine's Day, it starts like this: For the record, Valentine’s Day is not my favorite holiday – It’s a Hallmark holiday so there’s too much pressure to “show” your love with material things and I don’t like it. Although, in all honesty, I would probably like it more if I … Continue reading Valentine’s Day 2026
The Conversation
This is the third in a series of posts. The first is In the Corner; the second is Out of the Corner. But you don’t have to read the first two to enjoy this one. After the very hard spanking, he cuddled her on his lap for a long time. The he patted her bottom … Continue reading The Conversation
Out of the Corner
It was an even more repentant submissive who came out of the corner. Between the plug and the corner, she was glowing, happy to do anything he asked of her. He had removed the plug, but that lovely sense of submission remained. ”Here,” he said, pointing at the floor in front of him. He was … Continue reading Out of the Corner
It’s Not a Chastity Belt, But…
If you read my friend Nijntje's blog, (and if you don’t, you should), then you know that her Master has required her to wear her chastity belt again for some specified hours of the day. It’s a lovely part of their dynamic. I don’t have a chastity belt (although I wonder about it when I … Continue reading It’s Not a Chastity Belt, But…
Imbolc 2026
Imbolc, a Celtic festival, is today. It marks the halfway point between Winter Solstice and Summer Solstice. I welcome the returning light and embrace the promise of a new beginning. Imbolc is a time to spark your creativity, start new projects, step into the energy of moving toward new life. I release what no longer … Continue reading Imbolc 2026
