Really, I should have titled this post "Gifts." i'm sitting here in a delightful Airbnb, burning the meditation candle that jade gave me, looking at the beautiful stone that is supposed to help me be more in touch with my own intuitive self (pictured below with the little pouch she gave me to keep it … Continue reading Olivia and Monkey’s Day on the Town
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Fetlife Adventures
In the last 48 hours, four people have approached me on Fetlife!! How does that even happen? They are all from here, or close enough. One of them is 26 years old and wants a mistress who will fuck him with a strap-on. Um, i'm pretty sure that's not me. Not seeing it. One of … Continue reading Fetlife Adventures
Love our Lurkers
It's that time of year again - when we say thank you to the people who read our blogs and try to lure the lurkers into coming out and saying "hi," back. Thank you so much for reading!! There's no actual pressure to comment - but if you want to say hi I'd love … Continue reading Love our Lurkers
At the Coffee Shop
I'm writing this from a new coffee shop - new to me, that is. It's a cozy, let's-drink-tea-and-sing-Kumbaya kind of place. Lots of wood, esoteric wall hangings and baked goods with all natural ingredients. The first thing I notice is the couple sitting to the right of the door. He is a middle aged man, … Continue reading At the Coffee Shop
Happy Halloween!
Halloween is definitely more fun when there are grands involved. 🙂 Did you know that, according to Snopes, there has not been one single documented incident of someone randomly giving out poisoned candy. Not. One. I think about all the candy we meticulously inspected for signs of tampering. All the darn candy we through away. … Continue reading Happy Halloween!
Me and My Sign
Once upon a time, in the very long ago, "What's your sign?" was an actual pick-up line in bars. Maybe not a good one, and it became a joke, but it really was a thing. I don't put any stock in horoscopes predicting the future, but always enjoyed reading about people's signs. My favorite resource … Continue reading Me and My Sign
Top 100 Sex Bloggers Nominations – Now
NOMINATIONS TIME! With a couple of minor edits, I reposted this from Temperature's Rising Thank you, Mrs. Fever. The ever-resourceful Molly Moore, who – in addition to managing her own blog – runs a variety of sex-positive blogging projects, is once again tackling the task of curating an annual “Top 100” list of active … Continue reading Top 100 Sex Bloggers Nominations – Now
Sleepwear
This is the kind of thing that i would only share here becuase really, no one is going to be interested in it, um, because it's not really interesting to anyone but me. And if you came looking for sexy lingerie, you are going to be disappointed. Sorry. So. For many years, I slept naked. … Continue reading Sleepwear
It’s Monkey!!
That's who i'm meeting. Monkey. I can't tell you how excited i am. I feel like i've known Monkey forever - ok, maybe only since 2010, but that was the beginning of my kink life, my blogging life, and so it was really the start of a whole new life. We've been through so many … Continue reading It’s Monkey!!
All the Feelings
“Play me something that makes me feel; This soul inside me is made of steel. Brain is breathing, but heart’s not beating And, babe, I need you to make things real. Walk inside me without silence, Kill the past and change the tense. Empty gnawing and the ache is soaring; Take me places that make … Continue reading All the Feelings
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