What I noticed the most yestarday was feeling the material of my pants rubbing gently against my skin. The skin that my panties no longer mostly cover. My pants (think yoga pants) were a silky material, so it was a pleasant sensation. A few times, I even ran my hand over my ass in a … Continue reading Who Thought Thongs Were a Good Idea Anyway?

Celebrating the equinox because right now, there is balance between day and night, poised for this one day. From here, the days will get longer, the nights shorter. Warm winds and sunshine are here, life is good. And my life is changing. My word of the year is Rooted. Turning toward myself, listening and acting … Continue reading Spring Equinox and New Beginnings…

I just read a post by Jon Grey, who goes by Master Grey, that really resonated with me. So much of what he wrote abut D/s relationships connects with how I see them. His post is called "Shut Up and Dance: The Journey vs The Destination." This is one of several posts he's done lately … Continue reading The Dance of Submission

I was walking home from the store yesterday when I spotted this: Do you see it? The tie hanging over a weed protruding through the fence? I almost walked right by it, but the touch of purple on the bottom caught my eye and I stopped to consider it. How did that poor tie end … Continue reading The Tie that Binds

I was fathered by a man who was quite narcissistic. Fortunately, my parents divorced when I was seven, so I didn't have his influence daily during the rest of my childhood and adolescence But I loved my Dad immensely, and never really stopped loving him, even though I ended our relationship when I was 16. … Continue reading Meanwhile, In Real Life…

The D/s Blog is a book, written by Discerning Dom, who used to have a blog way back in the day when I was still a new blogger myself. I was half in love with Discerning Dom. He represented the ideal Dom to me, and maybe he still does. Anyhow, he eventually made his blog … Continue reading “The D/s Blog” Review

I had one task I had to do yesterday. I had to record a couple of brief videos for the participants in a workshop I'm leading. Under 5 minutes each. Material I know really well. Tech I'm totally familiar with. I had planned to be finished by 10:00. Yes, 10 in the morning, I'm an … Continue reading Spanking Territory?

It is my birthday this weekend! I am officially old. And that's ok. It's a bit unbelievable. How can I be old? But apparently it happens to the best of us. And even to the worst of us, if we live long enough. I know, young at heart, blah, blah, blah. My latest life challenge … Continue reading They Say It’s Your Birthday