I had one task I had to do yesterday. I had to record a couple of brief videos for the participants in a workshop I'm leading. Under 5 minutes each. Material I know really well. Tech I'm totally familiar with. I had planned to be finished by 10:00. Yes, 10 in the morning, I'm an … Continue reading Spanking Territory?
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They Say It’s Your Birthday
It is my birthday this weekend! I am officially old. And that's ok. It's a bit unbelievable. How can I be old? But apparently it happens to the best of us. And even to the worst of us, if we live long enough. I know, young at heart, blah, blah, blah. My latest life challenge … Continue reading They Say It’s Your Birthday
At His Feet, Part 4
I started to giggle nervously, hearing those words. I couldn't help it and Master David knew it was nerves. He leaned forward, holding his thumb toward me. I opened my mouth and he filled it with his thumb, pressing down on my tongue, allowing me to suck him tenderly. That calmed me a lot and … Continue reading At His Feet, Part 4
At His Feet, Part 3
Sometimes, I thought half of D/s was being told to go somewhere and wait. Standing naked in the corner, wearing a blindfold I had put on myself, it seemed like that was all I'd done tonight. Without the plug filling me, I felt a bit empty, but I knew that wouldn't last. I tried to … Continue reading At His Feet, Part 3
Who’s the Dom Here?
When I was involved in an in-person kinky community, I learned this lesson about the difference between being a Dom or a sub. I'll share a scenario, you tell me who's the Dom. One person is sitting at the table. The other person carries over a plate with a beautiful array of small pastries for … Continue reading Who’s the Dom Here?
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To Obey, Part 2
10 minutes in the corner doesn't sound very long, unless you're the one doing the 10 minutes. It seemed like an hour to me, standing in that slightly uncomfortable position, carefully maintaining the poseture he had set, waiting for the promised "good, hard spanking." I knew that I was supposed to focus on what I … Continue reading To Obey, Part 2
On the Eve…
Noooo, not On the Eve of Destruction (although I did have to pause my writing and play the song real quickly.). But no, I'm not even going to share that video here. I'm talking about New Year's Eve! I have a New Year gift for you - a resource really. If you're into reviewing your … Continue reading On the Eve…
Word of the Year ’25
Most years, at the beginning of the year, I choose a word that represents my focus on intentions for the year. By March, I've generally forgotten what the word is, but that's ok. It's still a fun practice, and I think the effect lingers even after I've quit thinking about it. This year, I'm part … Continue reading Word of the Year ’25
Merry Christmas ’24
Merry Christmas - Happy Hanukkah - Happy Kwanzaa Whatever you celebrate, hope you're finding joy in the celebration! And if there's not much joy in the season for you - that's ok too. Forced celebration and good cheer really suck. Feelings aren't right or wrong - however you feel is ok. (Image says, Remember: It's … Continue reading Merry Christmas ’24
