We have talked before about promoting each other's books, and I haven't been very good about doing that. I'll try to improve. But this opportunity came up and I wanted to share it. If you want to have the pleasure of reading a book before it's published, my dear friend, Mercy, has ARC Sign-ups open … Continue reading A Fun Opportunity
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Happy Anniversary to Me
My WordPress anniversary. According to WordPress, I first registered with them 15 years ago today. So I've been blogging about BDSM since May 7, 2010. I went back to my first blog and my first post: This is my first post! O, my. Ok, this is a blog about me, aisha. And Sir. And submission – … Continue reading Happy Anniversary to Me
Preparing Iris {A Draft from the Past}
”Iris? Iris! Girl. Wake up.” ”Mmmmm?” She stirred, turned over and cuddled up facing him. He chuckled, and pinched a nipple. Hard. Her eyes popped open. ”Ouch!” And then memories came flooding back over her. Kneeling on the kitchen floor. Stinging slaps on the inside of her thighs and an amazing orgasm. Getting fucked, with … Continue reading Preparing Iris {A Draft from the Past}
For the Record, Y’all
I have a long-standing fantasy about having a Dom who would manage my behavior so that I do all the things I "should" do for my own good. It used to be exercise and self-care things he would manage, now that I'm more or less where I need to be on that, I'm looking at … Continue reading For the Record, Y’all
Not Too Hot, Not Too Cold…
Tea with Ms. Constance was always a treat, and Delilah thought that today was no exception. Ms. Constance had a larger-than-life personality that fascinated Delilah, and she could listen to the older woman telling stories for hours. But they didn't have hours today, just a short visit over tea, a good opportunity to get her … Continue reading Not Too Hot, Not Too Cold…
The Paradox of Submission
Submission: the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person. e.g. "They were forced into submission" The whole point of submission is that you're doing what someone else wants you to do. My long-time-ago unoffoical Dom, Mike, used to say, "You know how … Continue reading The Paradox of Submission
Celebrating the Day
Wishing you all the joy of whatever religious celebration is yours - Easter, Passover, or Ridvan. The grands had Easter egg hunts and baskets and all the pleasure of searching for treats. I listened to Jesus Christ Superstar, which is my tradition. As a former Catholic, mostly Buddhist now, or Wiccan, or something, Easter is … Continue reading Celebrating the Day
Unbalanced
I've been thinking about this quote from Alain de Botton. There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life. Ever since I decided to quit marketing my business and lean into semi-retirement, I've had new business drop into my lap pretty steadily. My plan was to work for the … Continue reading Unbalanced
Another Saturday Night…
I think I live in song about half the time these days. I hope you're all already playing this oldie in your head. but in case you aren't, here it is. Another Saturday Night by Sam Cooke. https://youtu.be/0O8m0mMDpHw?si=dJWsaC0Ox_QsUfeW "Another Saturday night and I ain't got nobody..." I guess that sounds sad, but if you listen … Continue reading Another Saturday Night…
Recalculating…
Do any of you remember when MapQuest, or whatever app it was back in the day, used to let you know you'd gone the wrong way by saying, in a judgmental tone of voice, "RECALCULATING..." before it gave you new directions. Sometimes it told you to make a u-turn, sometimes it just sent you around … Continue reading Recalculating…