Late LOL

I can’t believe Love Our Lurkers was yesterday – is that even right?  Yikes!  I LOVE LOL, so I hate that I’m late.  I have a bunch of new subscribers, but am never sure that more than a couple of them actually read here again.  🙂

But if you’re out there

I’d love to hear from you.  And if you feel inspired, tell me what you like best about the world of kinky blogging…

Love our Lurkers

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It’s that time of year again – when we say thank you to the people who read our blogs and try to lure the lurkers into coming out and saying “hi,” back.  Thank you so much for reading!!


There’s no actual pressure to comment – but if you want to say hi I’d love that!  If you have any questions or if you want to share the link to your blog (if you have one) or if you want to tell me something about yourself, I would be delighted.

Or if you just want to keep reading quietly?  That’s ok too!!


Love our Lurkers

Most of us start out as lurkers – i know i did!  And when i left my first comments, and got a response, when i got my first comments on my own blog, i was thrilled and anxious at the same time.  It was like having movie stars step into my home.  (And i’m still friends with those first bloggers i met!)

i love getting comments – i imagine all bloggers do.  So today, you, Gentle Reader, are invited to step out of reading mode and into commenting.  No pressure, of course.  Just a friendly invitation.

You can just say “hi.”  You can comment anonymously.  You can make up a name.  (Full disclosure:  “olivia” is not what i’m called at work.)

BDSM is not just about kinky sex.  BDSM is about connection.  So if you’re not connected somewhere with people who won’t judge you – in real life, or with your own blog, or by commenting on Other People’s Blogs – here’s your chance to step out and say a few words.  Let us begin to get to know you.