Sir and I continue to have regular sessions, maintenance on Wednesday, play on Sunday - although we're switching to Tuesday and Saturday, starting last night. I think it is actually, really helpful for me and improves the quality of my life overall. However. There's always an "however" with me, isn't there? Lol, that's how I … Continue reading The Little Things?
BDSM
Rope
I love rope - have i mentioned that? Lol, yes, I know I have. But last night reminded me of how much I love it. Just the sense of being restrained is so lovely. While I was securely tied to a chair, legs open, Sir used a number of strappy toys on me - my … Continue reading Rope
Demisexual?
I am fascinated and often delighted by the variety of ways we can define our sexuality. Sir has been researching some terms for himself (which I won't share, although he has indicated how he identifies on his Fetlife profile.) But I've been thinking about myself today and who I'm attracted to. Yes, I like labels. … Continue reading Demisexual?
Last Night’s Menu
In our earliest efforts at D/s life, spankings often happened with my hands restrained over my head - there was actually a hook in the wall specifically for that purpose. In the beginning, I ended up feeling like his spanking lacked energy and enthusiasm. When he tried to adjust that, he ended up just whaling … Continue reading Last Night’s Menu
Omg
Sir's inner sadist has been awakened. Today is Maintenance Day. Before our time together, Sir sends me an email with an outline of what to expect that evening. I do appreciate that. So part of the email for today included this: Tonight’s All You Can Eat menu will be Appetizers- Wooden spoon … Continue reading Omg
Guilt Free
"Come here," he said. Quickly, she put down her book and approached him. He was settled comfortably in his chair, a plush leather recliner. He was not reclining. She hesitated just inside the room, thinking he might need her to bring him something. "Yes, Sir?" "No, come here," he said, gesturing to the kneeling bench … Continue reading Guilt Free
Rolling with the Resistance
I think of it as a therapy technique. When clients are resistant to change, it's pointless to argue with them. As a therapist, I would take a step back and just acknowledge that they didn't actually have to change. Then we could talk about what would happen if they stayed on the same path they … Continue reading Rolling with the Resistance
A Poem for the Day
There once was a Dom who lived in a shoeHis sub was so naughty, he didn’t know what to do.So he whipped off his belt, which filled her with dread,Spanked her quite soundly,and put her to bed. Good night y’all! 💜 Photo by Caleb Oquendo on Pexels.com
On Strike?
I have been feeling a little bit lost lately. Work is not going well, entirely my own fault. I’m back to not doing the things I need to do. Apparently, I can not do my work for any number of reasons. Too distracted, too busy with other things, too tired, too unsure of what to … Continue reading On Strike?
Words, words and more words…
I'm laughing about today's WordPress prompt for today: If you could permanently ban a word from general usage, which word would it be? Why? I'm not one to ban words just on general principle. If I were going to ban any word, it would probably be the n-word, but then there are black people who … Continue reading Words, words and more words…
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