It was her lover who helped her to her feet. He allowed her to stretch her arms, wiggling her shoulders, and then raised her hands, placing them behind her head, right at the nape of her neck. She was still blindfolded. "I'm going to claim you," he said. "I'll ask you to submit to my … Continue reading Moments {2}
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Pondering Trauma
Listening to a presentation by Bessel van der Kolk about healing from trauma. He talks about how many of us are numb, not living fully embodied. He points out that when you're numb, anything that creates sensation may be perceived as pleasurable. And is that why pain is pleasurable? Or part of why - we … Continue reading Pondering Trauma
Moments {1}
She is kneeling, head bent, naked. Hands clasped behind her back, rocked back on her heels, knees open. She has been shaved, or maybe waxed; in any case, her pussy is bare and exposed. Her hair is long, braided. She is blindfolded. The men standing around her are dressed, one of them very formally in … Continue reading Moments {1}
Changes
It was so nice to get such a warm welcome back yesterday. Thanks to everyone who visited and special thanks for the comments. It was like a homecoming. I was dropping in on different people's blogs last night and was surprised to see some of the changes going on. Fondles dad is in the hospital, … Continue reading Changes
After: Chapter 1
One Year Later... She wouldn't have remembered that this was the anniversary except for Facebook. But the memory popped up on there, "One year ago today..." and there was the image she posted that day. It read: She stood in the storm and when the wind did not blow her way, she adjusted her sails. … Continue reading After: Chapter 1
After: A BDSM Fantasy
Introduction He had left her. Ada didn't know whether to laugh or cry. This was totally unexpected. Not all bad, of course. Not all bad. Financially, she would be ok. They didn't have children together, so that wasn't an issue. Her children, both grown and on their own, might miss him at Christmas and birthday … Continue reading After: A BDSM Fantasy
Yikes
Remember when y'all encouraged me to ask for my toys back? Yeah. So I did that. And then it set off a reaction, a chain reaction, and suddenly - like a kaleidoscope - things are different. With a quick turn of the wheel, from this: to this Just … Continue reading Yikes
Sex, Power, and Leadership: An online Conference {Free}
Sex, Power, and Leadership: A Free Online Conference It occurs to me that some of you might be interested in this free online conference which starts Monday. I should have mentioned it sooner, but better late than... you know, never. Consensual Power Exchange as an Antidote to Patriarchy is one of the segments. The line … Continue reading Sex, Power, and Leadership: An online Conference {Free}
Things I forgot…
I forgot how much i love this song: In case you can't see it, or it won't play, it's Bob Marley doing Three Little Birds. "Don't worry, 'bout a thing, cause every little thing, gonna be alright..." I forgot how much more fun it is to do dishes and other mundane chores when listening to … Continue reading Things I forgot…
BDSM History for Fun
A friend of mine posted an article on FB with these amazing pictures of dominatrix from the old days of BDSM. They're pretty fun to look at. Here's the link: https://dangerousminds.net/comments/vintage_photographs_of_dominatrixes Here are a couple of the pictures. I think they're both pretty cool, but my favorite is … Continue reading BDSM History for Fun
