I’m not planning to keep youall posted on every little thing that happens in my life, not even the exciting little things. But after my last post, my friend Nora commented, sharing from her own experience a couple of ways I might improve the effectiveness of my self-spanking.
Nora advised me that standing straight when self spanking works better than leaning over. And she testified to the effectiveness of a tawse. She even shared a link to one that’s similar to one she has. A Very Scary Tawse.
I was intrigued and excited at the idea. (Even while I think it’s ridiculous that I want to get something that’s going to hurt me more). But I’m excited about it.
When I talked to Sir later, his tone seemed slightly amused and something about his expression suggested I might not know what I’m getting into. But he approved the tawse.
And there was a moment… We had just been chatting about it, casually (like anyone might while talking about a Very Scary Tawse.). All warm and friendly, and I was giggling a lot like I do sometimes – and then the shift happened. In a flash, he went from casual to Dom mode.
I see it happen – his expression changes in some subtle but powerful way – and I’m not giggling anymore. My breath catches and I feel pinned by his gaze, my mouth goes dry. Frozen, except for the rush of heated arousal that runs through me. I may not know what I’ve gotten myself into with this tawse, but I’m quite sure he’s going to enjoy directing me to use it. I’m lost in my desire to give him what he wants.
That moment – when I feel his dominance so viscerally and instinctively submit to it – needs to go into my Ode to a Dom.
Later in the evening, I’m chatting with my friend, Nijntje. She shares her experience and suggests a wooden spoon might be a better self-spanking tool than a belt. I appreciate the suggestion, and am laughing at myself again for welcoming advice on how to bring myself more pain. Other people might be exploring how to avoid pain. In the sisterhood of submission, we have our own way of supporting each other.
All this practice with self-spanking is not only for the moment, but preparation. In a couple of months Sir and I will have a bit of real time together and actual privacy. Working on my self-spanking skills is part of the preparation for that time.
So much to look forward to… And so much appreciation for the sisterhood of submissive women. Their support comes with acceptance, bringing light, strength, and shared wisdom. I am a lucky girl.
Olivia 
So lovely that you give each other ideas about what you don’t want.
Long live the sisterhood.
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I mean… it sounds a little warped when you put it that way…. But that’s ok. Yes – it works for us. 💜
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LOL. Long live the submissive sisterhood! We gals have to stick together, James…and help one another out, even in the most peculiar of ways 😊
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I would love if you keep us updated on every little thing that happens in your life… I mean that sincerely! I LOVE your posts, my dear friend ❤️
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That’s really sweet! I appreciate the encouragement so much, my friend!! 💜
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And I completely back this sentiment! Olivia’, life is for sharing, and we love what you share with us 😊
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You are going to LOVE and highly regret an investment in a thick leather tawse. I believe all tawses come with a warranty, guaranteeing a hot, stinging, throbbing bottom. And should your Sir ever decide to punish you with the tawse, it will likely bring on tears of remorse from your chastisement.
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“LOVE and highly regret…”. 🤣 Both the promise and the threat. I hope to avoid any actual punishments… but who knows what the future holds. Yikes. 💜
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LoL, long live the sisterhood indeed! It is funny how we share advice and wisdom on things that we may not really want lol.
That’s the beauty of the sisterhood though, a group of wonderful, supportive, like minded women who are there for each other.
Hugs
Roz
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That IS the beauty of the sisterhood! We are there for each other, and I’m glad you’re here. 💜
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LoL, long live the sisterhood indeed! It is funny how we share advice and wisdom on things that we may not really want lol.
That’s the beauty of the sisterhood though, a group of wonderful, supportive, like minded women who are there for each other.
Hugs
Roz
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Ahem, Warrior Queen Elena checking in to issue a decree that the submissive sisterhood be protected at all costs! Okay, but seriously 😁
I often read your posts Olivia, and I’ve told myself that in 2026, I must do better at actually commenting on my friends’ blogs! I’ve never been tawsed (give them time, you know how Dominant kind are 🙄😉), but leather things definitely deliver. Personally I love floggers but hate paddles. Suede floggers, I doze off. Leather paddles, I wake up *very* quickly!
I can’t wait to read what 2026 brings next for you in your ventures 😊
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