As promised, i’ve been reading up a bit on female orgasm. The type of orgasm that i was curious about didn’t make it to the list – so maybe it is not an orgasm at all. I don’t know. If i’m feeling brave as i write this post, i might describe it hear and see if it happens to anyone else. Well, of course it happens to other people – there is not one single thing that i feel which is truly unique to me in this world of billions of people. But see if any of my friends recognize what i’m talking about.
Anyhow. There are apparently 12 kinds of female orgasm, all described here. I’ve converted this article, which had a zillion ads, to a PDF and hopefully you’ll be able to access it.
The 12 different types of female orgasm revealed
They are: Clitoral, G-Spot, Blended, Nipple, Anal, Multiple, Cervical, Mental, Squirting, Expanded Sexual Response, Kissing, and Coregasm
But the sensation i experience is not any of those.
(Internal conversation: You can’t share that – they’re going to thing you’re too weird./ It’s my blog, i can share anything i want/ Yeah, if you want to look like a fool. / Big sigh, i guess I’ll just have to look like a fool then.)
The sensation happens when i experience a sudden high level of arousal based on verbal stimulation. It is completely unpredictable. But it feels like an internal tug, deep inside, starting around my belly button and running straight to my - you know, straight to my pussy, very much internal – and it carries a rush of pleasure and a sort of spasm.
When i feel the rush of pleasure, I can think, well, that’s just pleasure. Stimulating my nipples does that really well too, that internal tug and rush. But sometimes, this rush of pleasure ends in a pleasurable spasm. Yep, an actual pelvic spasm. But – when i look up pelvic spasm, just out of curiosity, it’s all about pain. This is the opposite of painful. It is a brief, pleasurable release of tension.
So I don’t know. I guess I don’t care, really. I was just curious. Maybe you don’t experience this, and that’s ok. Is there some other sort of odd pleasure you do experience? What about those 12 types of orgasms? Which kinds have you experienced? Inquiring minds want to know. If you decide to post about it, I’d love for you to let me share the post here.
Speaking of which!! I almost forgot. Willie, who you may only know through her thought-provoking comments here and elsewhere in the blogosphere, has started blogging again. You can find her here at B and Willie. Don’t miss reading She (Part 1) – it is amazingly beautiful and powerful.
Olivia 
can’t say i’ve ever had an orgasm after working out! lol the others i have certainly experienced. 🙂
you’re explanation though sounds something like being able to orgasm on verbal command?!? sometimes even just the right look from Master tells my body what to do.
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Yeah, it’s hard to imagine having one from working out! And it occurs to me that you’re right. It is more like being able to orgasm on verbal command than anything else. That might be a good way to think about it. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. 💜
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Wow, I am now aware of so many new ways to feel inadequate. Lmao! Who knew?
So when you say spasms, do you mean like mild clenching? Like a Kegel? I have had the sort of stomach flip ( for lack of a better term) then what seems like a plunge downward, not a like a pit in the stomach thing. Maybe more like a large marble rolls around deep behind my belly button and then quickly falls down a shoot? Odd description I’ll agree.
Thank you so much for the shout out and the kind words ( thought provoking or head scratching comments, why split hairs lol)
willie
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Oh, right – the ways to feel inadequate hit home for me too!! Lol
Kind of like a Kegel only the clench affects the pelvic region more broadly too. Yes to the plunge downward, not like a pit in the stomach. Yes, yes.
You crack me up – definitely thought provoking not head scratching!
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I am sitting in a hospital ER, reading your blog, and laughed out loud that you wrote your readers might think you were too weird for writing about your experience of orgasms. If I’m not worried about the old biddy sitting next to me getting an eye full, I am feeling like you should trust your readers to roll with this topic 🙂
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And your comment totally made me giggle! Good point…. ☺️
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LOL
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Thank you for sharing the article with us on orgasms. It was interesting to see how they are classified. I tend to have mostly clitoral/ G-spot orgasms, which are definitely enhanced by nipple stimulation. But I feel like there is another way to describe my orgasms, a concept which I haven’t fully developed in my head yet, but have been telling Daddy about for years. Sometimes, my orgasm comes sharp and quick and is over almost as soon as it begins. Other times, my orgasm washes over me in waves, lasting a fair amount of time. Sometimes my orgasms are hot and pulsing. LOL. Now who is weird? But I definitely know that tug in the belly that you are talking about. Sometimes when I am on Zoom with Sir, he gives me this look (the kind of look where I can tell he is going to devour me with his words), and I feel this hot tug in my tummy that goes straight to my vajayjay. Oh, how I love that feeling…. Great post, olivia! XOXO
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Oh that’s really interested, Nora! I have quick sharp ones too, that are short, and longer ones that come in waves. So you’re not that weird! And yay that you get the tug in the belly!! It does go straight to the vajayjay – and i love that you remind me of the delicate way to say these things! It is a lovely feeling, for sure!
Thanks! 💜
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Interesting Olivia, I knew there were different orgasms, but hadn’t heard of all of these. Can’t imagine orgasming from exercise either and I kinda wish I had woken up with one lol.
Oh yes, the tug deep in the belly. Mine would be mostly clitoral and also enhanced by nipple play. Sometimes they sneak up on me and can be short and sharp. Others can come over me in waves and be intense leaving me shaking for a bit afterwards. Then there is what I call the mini. Did you cum? LoL
Hugs
Roz
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I hadn’t heard of all these either! And cool, you have the tug, the short and sharp and waves! Yes, the waves are when i think of it “over the top, and trembling all the way down.” Lol at the mini!!
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Talking about orgasm from working out…. There is this machine in the gym on which I can orgasm discreetly while surrounded by crowd. Same for some stomach muscle excercises… it was easier when I was younger but I still can do it
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Omg, Jo, consider me totally impressed! Cool!!
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I discovered that when they were making us these dreadful stomach muscle exercises , when you move your lags like scissors…. All of the sudden I was looking forward to PE classes 😁
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OH! The legs like scissors thing – I can do that one! I discovered that in phys ed climbing ropes!! Thanks. 🙂
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We should start work out support group for perverted ladies 😉
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Lol, definitely!
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Like a lot of men I expect, there is a lot of mystery to the female orgasm for me. I’ve caused more than a few in my time, but everyone experiences them differently and the idea that there’s a dozen different kinds is not that surprising. What you described added an extra dimension to it all, maybe there can be combinations of different kinds. You described something mental and core based, maybe there isn’t 12, maybe there are dozens more. Each one as unique to the wonderous person experiencing it.
In years past, I explained diversity to my young son “In the big ways we’re all the same.” Meaning treat everyone equally and fairly. “But in the little ways, we’re all different.” But to us, our little ways can be the most impactful of our lives.
Pleasure is something we all have in common. What does it for us, how we experience it and what that means to us are as individual as we are. Thank you for sharing this unique perspective.
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Thank you for sharing your perspective, KM. You are probably right – lots of ways of experiencing this kind of pleasure! I love the way you explained diversity to your son. And yes, our little ways make a big difference. Thanks for sharing your reflections! 💜
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