On Fetlife, i got a message from a 30 year old man who lives fairly near me. He identifies as “Straight” and “Curious want to try. ” After exchanging a couple of pleasantries, we have this conversation:
Him: So what are you looking for on here?
Me: Oh, good question. Maybe just enough connection with the world of BDSM to remember it’s still my thing. How about you?
Him: Fun people. Like hanging out and in the bedroom
Him: (separate message) I’m looking for some company every night too
Me: That’s cool. Are you involved in the kink community here?
Him: No. I just started couple months ago. You wanna come over and we have some fun
Me: No. Thanks for asking.
Him: Why not
It totally made me giggle. “Why not” There are soooo many answers I could give… But before I do, let’s pause for a minute. What would you say? Why not
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Things I could say:
Me: Why not? Why on earth would I? What have you offered except some vague “fun” and I have no frigging idea what that even means to you? Are we going to watch football on TV? Bake brownies? What?
Me: Why not? Is that supposed to be a question? Where’s the question mark?
Me: Omigoodness. Darling. You are so far out of your league, you don’t even have a clue. Don’t make me laugh.
Me: {Can’t even say anything}
Me: Don’t do this. Don’t even pursue this conversation when it’s obvious you’re not even interested. Give yourself a break. Look for someone who sparks some energy and enthusiasm. Get to know them first. Fetlife is not actually a mindless hook-up site.
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But enough of that. The big excitement coming up in my life is that i get to meet another blogger. If you read her blog, you already know that we’re meeting. I am as excited about it as she is.
Stay tuned…
Olivia 
Um-I’m not Mrs. Robinson, please learn how to have a connection with your mind first. Do you actually expect anyone mentally healthy to say yes?
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Or have you ever seen Fatal Attraction?
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“Because Booboo that is not how Mommy plays” …Why not? He sounds 10 . LOL
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Lol, that’s about right. Thanks for playing1
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HA. Ha.
Meeting bloggie friends is the best!
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