i saw on someone’s blog (i’m sorry, don’t remember whose) that she was having trouble being submissive after the election – that she thinks this is a time to be strong. And i thought ~~ yes, oh, yes ~~ and
~~ being submissive is strong. Being submissive makes us stronger.
i think. Doesn’t it?
But i’ve never been submissive where my Dom really told me what to do. i mean, beyond minor things. i don’t guess for real i ever would be. If i try to picture myself making career decisions based on what someone else thought was best, or having my spiritual beliefs dictated by someone else? No. Can’t see it. Not financial choices either. Input, yes, sure, but i have to follow my own path.
i don’t know if i even exactly remember what it’s about for me.
But it wasn’t about being “less than.” It wasn’t about that.
So sending love to whoever that was who was worried about it. Because you can be submissive and still want to crush the patriarchy. i’m convinced that’s true.
Love and light to you all.