i am officially diabetic. Or, as I pointed out to the somewhat officious nurse practitioner who broke the news to me, i am "a person with diabetes." That is the more person-centered language that's preferred in health care these days. This was after I heard her tell someone down the hall that she had "a … Continue reading FFF 2-16: It’s Official…
Once upon a time…
This is a true story. Once upon a time, about 2004, i was still in my late 40s and just beginning to get interested in the real world of kink. i was newly aware that a whole bunch of people were doing things that would thrill and delight me and didn't end up with me … Continue reading Once upon a time…
Happy BDSM Valentine’s Day
For the record, Valentine's Day is not my favorite holiday - It's a Hallmark holiday so there's too much pressure to "show" your love with material things and I don't like it. Although, in all honesty, I would probably like it more if I got roses. But MP, even when we were in the throes … Continue reading Happy BDSM Valentine’s Day
BDSM History for Fun
A friend of mine posted an article on FB with these amazing pictures of dominatrix from the old days of BDSM. They're pretty fun to look at. Here's the link: https://dangerousminds.net/comments/vintage_photographs_of_dominatrixes Here are a couple of the pictures. I think they're both pretty cool, but my favorite is … Continue reading BDSM History for Fun
Monday, Monday
After all my fine talk about FFF, and wanting to get healthy, yesterday i binged on carbs and sugar and fat like there was no such thing as obesity or Diabetes, Type II. Yep. I ate some healthy meals - then filled in the gaps with a vanilla milkshake with 2 shots of espresso (yes, … Continue reading Monday, Monday
Watch This – Dungeon Fantasy 1
"Do you wish it were you?" he asks. Without taking my eyes off the scene unfolding before me, i shrug. "I dunno. Maybe." "Is that how you answer me?" he asks, and there is laughter in his tone, but also a sharpness that had not been there before. i turn to look at him. "I'm … Continue reading Watch This – Dungeon Fantasy 1
Like Agnostic Zetetic Says…
I was looking for quotes related to "work" and found this lovely series of quotes from Agnostic Zetetic, whom I had never heard of. I saw this one first and it just made me laugh. "There is a certain loveliness, I think, to performing deep cleaning in one’s underwear on a beautiful summer day.” ― Agnostic … Continue reading Like Agnostic Zetetic Says…
FFF – 2-9
I was reading Vesta's submission - she was talking about her husband. "What I have noticed is that as my husband became immersed in the body form, in his own body form, a sense of space quietly began to be lost, like air being sucked out of a blow up swimming pool that has developed a … Continue reading FFF – 2-9
Not Tuesday, Still TMI
1. Pancakes or waffles? Not either really. I'll hover between them on a buffet, but often as not don't take either. When I do pick one, it's probably pancakes. 2. Steak or Lobster? Both! Ok, if I have to choose - probably lobster. Maybe. I do like a good steak too... 3. Freckles or dimples? … Continue reading Not Tuesday, Still TMI
When I’m Sixty-Two…
Ok, the song is when i'm 64, and i'm not going to be 64 for a couple more years. But I am about to turn 62 in a few short weeks. And still appraising and re-appraising my life. “We have not yet arrived, but every point at which we stop requires a re-definition of our … Continue reading When I’m Sixty-Two…
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