I've been thinking about the changes in myself this time around with Sir X. I like to think of myself as a gentle, easy-going person, kind and non-judgemental. And in some ways, I think that's accurate. However... I can also be opinionated, stubborn, rigid, and difficult. I know - shocking, right? I think that in … Continue reading More about Spanking
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Spank-o-rama
That's what Sir is calling our Wednesday maintenance sessions now. A Spank-o-roma. And it was. He thought 68 was too high a number of strokes, so he took it down to 34. 34 with the thin paddle, 34 with the medium paddle, 34 with the heavy paddle, and 34 with the leather strap. Yikes. Ok, … Continue reading Spank-o-rama
Celebrating in Real Life
I could do my usual fussing about Valentine's Day. It's not my favorite holiday. It's a Hallmark holiday - one of many - that pressures us to spend money and makes us feel bad if we don't have a romantic other or don't get the right recognition of the day. But this year - with Sir X … Continue reading Celebrating in Real Life
Punished
She was standing, arms stretched above her head, suspended from a leather leash that ran from her cuffs to a hook in the ceiling. She was fastened securely, and grateful that she was not bound too tightly. She hated being whipped while she was pulled up on her toes. "Ohh!" she cried out - she had … Continue reading Punished
The Joy of Spankings…
I may have mentioned before that I love spankings - getting, not giving, of course. So I've been thinking about my history of getting spanked, mentally reviewing all the experiences I've had since I began living kinky back in 2010. By 2013, I had settled in with MP, although he was Sir X back then, and moved … Continue reading The Joy of Spankings…
The 2nd Wednesday
Yesterday was Wednesday. The second time that Sir X followed a script devised by Sir Jon and spanked me, live and in person. This time the script involved the flogger, a belt, and a heavy strap. Sir Jon is experimenting with finding the line between pleasure and pain for me. Sir X is really embracing this poly arrangement, … Continue reading The 2nd Wednesday
Daily
A bit tired and head-achy this morning - nothing more coffee won't fix. Yesterday, I mentally wrote the whole next installment of Wicked Naughty, but this morning, it feels a bit overwhelming to actually write it down. I know, I don't have to write it for youall, at least that's what I think you'll say. But I … Continue reading Daily
Playing On Retreat
A work retreat I had scheduled has given Sir Jon and me an opportunity to have time together with privacy on my end. This has been an amazing gift. Well, a gift to go with the gifts he had sent me earlier this week! I laid out the toys as soon as I got here. Every time I … Continue reading Playing On Retreat
The Munch and More
The day of the munch, i had to finish shaving, and thank goodness i was able to do that without any problem. Full disclosure - i used an electric razor. No, it doesn't shave as closely, but i also don't cut myself. I did read Nora Jean's post about shaving like a stripper, and seriously … Continue reading The Munch and More
FFF – 7-6-18
Happy FFF to you! Yes, I broke the "60" barrier - I've made it into the 159's!! New range of weights is 159.6-161.2. We've been doing this - FFF - for 23 weeks and I don't remember for sure where I was when I started out, but I've lost about 12 pounds. Averaging about 2 … Continue reading FFF – 7-6-18
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