I love it when an idea comes up in the community and different bloggers run with it from there, each in their own way. For example, slave shae recently had an experience in which Amanda had other people write on her body with a sharpie. It was a powerful experience for her - well, in the middle of … Continue reading Body Writing
Just me
The Joy of TTWD
I know, I'm always writing about joy these days. It's a lot better than the Days of Whining and Misery, isn't it? But I've been thinking today about TTWD. The urban dictionary says: "TTWD stands for "This Thing We Do" and is often used by the bdsm/kink community to describe non-vanilla practices or activities they may engage in, … Continue reading The Joy of TTWD
Perspective
Some of you may remember that once upon a time, not really that long ago, I was firmly committed to the idea that I needed a Dom to Dom me; that to experience the pleasures of submission, there had to be a Dom physically present to inflict all the pleasure/pain. Since then, I've moved far away … Continue reading Perspective
More on The Shadow
I had not expected the depth of response to my post on the Shadow and really appreciate it. I continue to think about it and look at different thoughts and perspecitives. I want to share this link from Michael's blog, The Dionysian Experience. He has a powerful post that he re-shares at the beginning of every year … Continue reading More on The Shadow
The Third Wednesday
It was Sir X's birthday yesterday, so we had a special script from Sir Jon. Yes, it was a birthday spanking, only I "took the spanking for him." Sir X is 71. That's a lot of spanks. But the first 36 were with the flogger, and of course, I love that. 35 more with the big paddle - oof! That … Continue reading The Third Wednesday
Rebooting Today
I started a post this morning that ending up leading me down a logical path with an end point I didn't like. I need to pursue that some other time maybe, but not today. So instead, I need to take a different path. As a teacher of Mindful Self Compassion, I have developed a habit of putting … Continue reading Rebooting Today
In my Vanilla World…
I hardly ever know what I'm going to write about until I start. I might have thought I would write about the lovely session Sir and I had last night and how I still can feel the effects today sitting here. Not just sitting a bit carefully, but you know, the glow is lingering too. So I'll … Continue reading In my Vanilla World…
Not Rushing Through
I wanted to post quickly, practically a drive through post. But you know, fast food is not really my style. Seriously, I don't even eat McDonald's. So I won't rush through this either. Just a moment of stillness instead, turning inward... In the silence, thoughts bubble up... Nora's post on The Animal Within Me which invites us to consider what … Continue reading Not Rushing Through
Female Orgasm
As promised, i've been reading up a bit on female orgasm. The type of orgasm that i was curious about didn't make it to the list - so maybe it is not an orgasm at all. I don't know. If i'm feeling brave as i write this post, i might describe it hear and see if it happens … Continue reading Female Orgasm
In the Poly Realm
Now that I actually have two Doms, I'm feeling a bit like I'm living in a romance novel. A kinky romance novel, like the ones my friend Raleigh Damson writes. It will be interesting to see what plot twists lie ahead! (By the way, pre-order is now available for Raleigh's 7th Bandit Brothers book, Flame for Keeps, … Continue reading In the Poly Realm
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