Warning: If you were googling Buddhist something and found this, this is probably not where you want to be. This is an irreverent look at the (mostly imaginary) intersection between Buddhism and kink. I hope that it is done with enough respect that it's not actually offensive. Continuing my journey at the Buddhist temple, I … Continue reading Don’t Laugh… too much
Author: olivia
A Strange Thing Happened…
Sunday, I went to a Buddhist Temple. I guess that might be a bit strange all by itself, or seem strange to some of you. But I've been thinking about it for a long time and I found a place not too far from where I live. It's fairly new, which is nice. So I … Continue reading A Strange Thing Happened…
“Take Care” Step Three
He was waiting for my answer, and I wanted to answer, but I was so shocked and embarrassed and - well, turned on, I was really hot. All those feelings just froze me. He laughed. “Alina. Look at me.” Slowly, I raised my eyes to his, and in that moment, all my concerns slipped away. … Continue reading “Take Care” Step Three
“Take Care” Step Two
HIs words lingered in the air. “Good girl.” I bit my lower lip, embarrassed at the rush of pleasure those words gave me. I couldn’t look at him, I knew he was watching me, but I don’t want him to see my reaction. We sat in silence while I carefully avoided eye contact and tried … Continue reading “Take Care” Step Two
“Take Care” Step One
"I think you need someone to take care of you," he said. I laughed, "Noooo, I'm pretty sure I can take care of myself. I've been doing it a long time now. In fact, it's usually me taking care of other people!" I expected him to smile, but he looked at me quite seriously, his … Continue reading “Take Care” Step One
This Life
Nope, I have not suddenly developed a kinky relationship with anyone. This is one of those "crying in my beer" posts, so feel free to skip it. I went to the beach this morning, which is always lovely. No less lovely today than ever. I've been to the coffee shop, to the farmers market, for … Continue reading This Life
It’s My Birthday Week!
Ok, we already celebrated on Sunday, as we do. But my birthday is actually later in the week and I think I'll celebrate all week long. Let's start with a little song from the Beatles: https://youtu.be/MjF1bG5LUcs This song is also for you, if it's your birthday too!! The day is almost over, but since I’m … Continue reading It’s My Birthday Week!
Winter Solstice 2022
Today, December 21 is Winter Solstice. The shortest day of the year. And the beginning of winter. A time for calm and quiet, pulling back and taking care of yourself. December is already my self-proclaimed Self-care month, so that fits nicely. This year I thought I'd start with sharing some winter solstice music. First, a … Continue reading Winter Solstice 2022
And the Fetlife Not-So-Funny
I ended my Fetlife exchange with Young Guy mentioning that he did not seem like a dominant. Perhaps that was insensitive. Although I really did just intend to start a conversation about types of kink. However. The road to hell* and all that. Cause here's what happened next: Him: Do you always judge and assume … Continue reading And the Fetlife Not-So-Funny
Fetlife Fun, Edition 58
Having backed off from any vanilla relationship possibilities, I turned my attention to the kink dating scene. I signed up for BDSM Seniors (don't laugh.) Ok, laugh if you want to, but there I was. I couldn't find any info on what it would cost before I made a profile, so I half-ass threw something … Continue reading Fetlife Fun, Edition 58
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