I had intended to do a longer post yesterday, but I ran out of time so I just hit publish to get something posted. To feel present again. Today, I'm back with some updates. I have resolved my work/career issues. I'm not pursuing a private practice, not trying to offer classes or workshops. If I … Continue reading Updating…
Author: olivia
Celebrating Summer Solstice
May the summer solstice inspire a sense of balance and harmony within you. May you find equilibrium between work and play, rest and activity, and embrace the joy of living in harmony with nature.
The New Page
I did it. I compiled all of Part I from Connections, with Sofia and Lucas, into one page and posted it. Now, I didn't do any editing, all I actually did was copy and paste it. So it's hard to say why I'm so pleased with myself. But I am, so I'm just going to … Continue reading The New Page
Crops and Floggers and Belts, Oh, My!
I found myself mentally chanting those words, bent over the bed, ass exposed, waiting for the flogging to begin... It was leather night, very exciting after last week's wood night. It's not that I don't enjoy paddles. I do. But not quite as much or as hard as Sir planned (and carried out.) Of course, … Continue reading Crops and Floggers and Belts, Oh, My!
Spring (a Day Late)
Spring came early this year - in my mind, it's not til the 20th or 21st. However, here we are - spring sprang yesterday! So I'm celebrating Spring Equinox today. As we move into spring, lots of changes continue to happen for me. I think it's leading to new growth and development and deeper happiness, … Continue reading Spring (a Day Late)
The Little Things?
Sir and I continue to have regular sessions, maintenance on Wednesday, play on Sunday - although we're switching to Tuesday and Saturday, starting last night. I think it is actually, really helpful for me and improves the quality of my life overall. However. There's always an "however" with me, isn't there? Lol, that's how I … Continue reading The Little Things?
Really Doing It
So often, I have great ideas and then I don't do anything with them. So I had an idea or two for workshops for the conference Sex Down South. (I know, I already told youall that.) But - last week, Angel, of Parisian Phoenix Publishing, messaged me that the deadline for applying is Friday, March … Continue reading Really Doing It
Rope
I love rope - have i mentioned that? Lol, yes, I know I have. But last night reminded me of how much I love it. Just the sense of being restrained is so lovely. While I was securely tied to a chair, legs open, Sir used a number of strappy toys on me - my … Continue reading Rope
Demisexual?
I am fascinated and often delighted by the variety of ways we can define our sexuality. Sir has been researching some terms for himself (which I won't share, although he has indicated how he identifies on his Fetlife profile.) But I've been thinking about myself today and who I'm attracted to. Yes, I like labels. … Continue reading Demisexual?
Last Night’s Menu
In our earliest efforts at D/s life, spankings often happened with my hands restrained over my head - there was actually a hook in the wall specifically for that purpose. In the beginning, I ended up feeling like his spanking lacked energy and enthusiasm. When he tried to adjust that, he ended up just whaling … Continue reading Last Night’s Menu