“But, chiquita, you must understand that while you are here, I expect you to come to me and share your fears. Even if I am the one causing them.”
― Cherise Sinclair
Ok, ok, vulnerability is not actually stupid, I know. And I practice it all the damn time.
No, right, not really ALL the time, but A LOT. That doesn’t mean I have to like it.
And even though I let myself be vulnerable, and I speak my truth practically all the time, it can still be a scary thing to do. It’s easier for me to have the argument in my own head, advocating for the other person faithfully, making allowances, giving them some grace. Getting over “it,” whatever it is, all by myself.
Maybe that’s not really how to have a relationship… (Giggling, because of course that’s silly, I know it’s not!). Relationships aren’t meant to be easy. I love this quote:
“If it's convenient to love you, you're lying to someone about who you are or what you need.”
--- Agnostic Zetetic
Olivia 
As ever, I am glad we both have the gift of communication, Baby. 😘
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Me too, my Sir, me too! 💜 🥰
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The quotes are great food for thought Olivia. I think that is the beauty of a relationship with the right person, being able to be open and vulnerable. Even though it’s hard at times.
Hugs
Roz
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I think you’re right, Roz. It is hard, but the joy is in being able to do it anyhow – be open and vulnerable. Thanks. 💜
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I saw a meme on the Recovery Dharma Facebook group awhile back. It read something like….have a strong back and a soft underbelly. I think the best relationships are the ones that test us and help us grow.
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Yeah I like that. I’m my meditation class we talk about soft front and strong back. I agree that good relationships help us grow. Wise words, my friend.
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