Have you heard of that game – Never Have I Ever? It’s usually a drinking game. Someone starts off by naming something simple they’ve never done before, and any one who has done it is supposed to take a drink. It’s a lot of fun and funny to hear the things people have actually done.

Facebook has its own version of this, with lists of all kinds of things. You’re asked to count how many you’ve done – like states you’ve visited – or how many you haven’t done – like got a speeding ticket. You comment with a number representing your own experience.

Well, I’ve been thinking about that game this past couple of weeks. This would have been my Ten “Never Had I Ever” list at the end of November:

1. Worn thongs
2. Taken a picture of my own naked body part
3. Sent a picture of same naked body part
4. Bought a cucumber to use as a dildo
5. Used an actual cucumber as a dildo
6. Pinched my nipple til I cried
7. Spanked myself
8. Tried an anal vibrator
9. Used a butt plug
10. Edged myself repeatedly

Some of those things are no longer on my list. Actually, only 5 of those things are left. No, it doesn’t matter which ones. Suffice to say 5 of them are no longer on the list.

Are any of those things on your Never Have I Ever list? Like Facebook, you can leave a number in the comments – no need to say which ones, unless you just want to share. But I’m curious…

One more Never Have I Ever to mention here. I had never been in a relationship with someone who’s openly poly. Once upon a time, that might have made me hesitate about the relationship. But that was long ago and far away. It seems perfectly reasonable, and even a benefit, now. Since my Sir is not into double standards, I am also not limited to just one relationship.

No, I don’t want a second Sir – I can’t imagine how – what if they wanted me to do two directly opposite things? I’d tear myself apart trying to satisfy both. No, my Sir is enough. But –

I’m thinking again about going to a kinky event. I know, I’ve said that before. But before, I would have been truly alone. And that seemed too difficult. 

Now, Sir has said I could tell him about it while I was there. So i could watch and/or play, go to classes and such, and then go back to my room and tell Sir all it. (Without breaching anyone’s privacy, of course.) Even if I felt lonely or left out during it, I would know I had someone to turn to. That is so much more appealing to me. So not now, but maybe in the late spring or summer.

So many things to enjoy…