FFF 12-7

It’s Friday!  Yay!  Although – I have class all weekend.  So it’s not like I’m going into a celebratory weekend.  But still.

AND here’s some good news – my 7 day average for steps is 6,219!  That’s almost at my goal of 7,000, so all I have to do now is keep up the good work!  (Ok, easier said than done.  But theoretically…)

My daughter and I have started going to the gym together, which helps immensely.  Apparently neither one of us will do it on our own, but together, we make it happen.  So that’s cool.

I am not making my fortune in my coaching business yet, but that’s ok.  It’ll happen.  I think.  I hope.  Fingers crossed…

I haven’t gotten on the scale in a while, which is possibly a mistake.  Well, I say in a while – probably a week ago.  I was still hitting 157 at that point, so we’ll see.  Hoping I can head down again.  I think I’ll set a goal.  150 by – by March.  By the end of March.  That’s totally realistic.

Date night has still been happening pretty regularly around here.  When it doesn’t, it’s been my fault.  I was sick forever, it seemed like.  Then this week I’ve got class, which is isn’t over til 7 p.m. and is exhausting.  (And you know I’ m pretty much an in-bed-by-9 kind of girl.)

We’ve had some fun dinners out though and that’s been nice.  There haven’t been any spankings since the one I asked for.  And honestly, I don’t think he’s going to initiate any.  I think he’ll be glad to oblige me if I ask, but I don’t think he’s going to pursue any kind of dominance.


I’m actually pretty ok with that for the moment though.  Not sure why.  Maybe that post-menopausal lack of desire has finally kicked in for me?  Anyhow, for whatever reason, I don’t need to go looking for problems.  I guess I will coast along and play it by ear.  We are connecting better in terms of spending time together, so there’s that.  Maybe that’s all I needed.

 Hope your holiday season is going well!!

8 thoughts on “FFF 12-7

  1. Hi Olivia,

    Congrats on getting the step count up, and hitting the gym with your daughter. Having someone to go with definitely helps the motivation.

    Yay on date nights and connecting more. It’s important to make that time for each other.


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  2. Good for you, on the continued focus on your FFF journey, Olivia … happy to hear you are on the mend sickness wise.

    I guess the important part of what it is you’ve got going with your man, is that you don’t feel like something is missing. Ebbs and flows … its the ttwd way :>)) … nj … xx

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    • Thanks, NJ – It is nice to be pretty much not sick at last! And yeah, I think that you’re right about the relationship. It doesn’t feel broken right now, so that’s ok…


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