Submission: the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person. e.g. "They were forced into submission" The whole point of submission is that you're doing what someone else wants you to do. My long-time-ago unoffoical Dom, Mike, used to say, "You know how … Continue reading The Paradox of Submission
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International Women’s Day & Submission
Shimmering Muse posted this amazing poem on her blog and I love it so much I have to share it here. To the Woman She Is, Take up space….not to shrink, but to claim your place.Inhabit your body like the universeit was always destined to be. You were never meant to fade,never meant to dim … Continue reading International Women’s Day & Submission
At His Feet, Part 4
I started to giggle nervously, hearing those words. I couldn't help it and Master David knew it was nerves. He leaned forward, holding his thumb toward me. I opened my mouth and he filled it with his thumb, pressing down on my tongue, allowing me to suck him tenderly. That calmed me a lot and … Continue reading At His Feet, Part 4
Who’s the Dom Here?
When I was involved in an in-person kinky community, I learned this lesson about the difference between being a Dom or a sub. I'll share a scenario, you tell me who's the Dom. One person is sitting at the table. The other person carries over a plate with a beautiful array of small pastries for … Continue reading Who’s the Dom Here?
Last Night’s Menu
In our earliest efforts at D/s life, spankings often happened with my hands restrained over my head - there was actually a hook in the wall specifically for that purpose. In the beginning, I ended up feeling like his spanking lacked energy and enthusiasm. When he tried to adjust that, he ended up just whaling … Continue reading Last Night’s Menu
Guilt Free
"Come here," he said. Quickly, she put down her book and approached him. He was settled comfortably in his chair, a plush leather recliner. He was not reclining. She hesitated just inside the room, thinking he might need her to bring him something. "Yes, Sir?" "No, come here," he said, gesturing to the kneeling bench … Continue reading Guilt Free
What about Slut?
In a comment on my last post, Helen of Ten Shades and Me offered that she doesn't like the word slut. She noted that it's overused, almost banal, and not creative at all. I can't argue with that. At the same time, it doesn't affect me that way. In the Meriam Webster dictionary, slut is … Continue reading What about Slut?
Spank-o-rama
That's what Sir is calling our Wednesday maintenance sessions now. A Spank-o-roma. And it was. He thought 68 was too high a number of strokes, so he took it down to 34. 34 with the thin paddle, 34 with the medium paddle, 34 with the heavy paddle, and 34 with the leather strap. Yikes. Ok, … Continue reading Spank-o-rama
I Won’t Break My Streak
I have a streak going - today is the 80th day in a row that I've posted on my blog. I don't want to break my streak, but I'm also kind of taking the day off. This was the first morning in a long time that I didn't start my morning with doing Olivia things. … Continue reading I Won’t Break My Streak
Prelude Part 4
The dungeon was in the downtown area, but not the nicest part of town. It had once been a warehouse, converted to offices. The kink community, financed substantially by a few wealthier members, had bought the building and redesigned it. It was considered the premiere dungeon in the region and kinksters came from all over for the events … Continue reading Prelude Part 4
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