At some point, writing here started to feel like another obligation instead of the pleasure it usually is. I shifted my writing to my vanilla life, and that felt right. Today, I've been sitting here for a bit trying to figure out how I'm doing. I mean, I'm ok. I'm not freaking out. I'm not … Continue reading Another Sunday in TCT

I've been thinking about re-finding myself ("What? Again?" you say.) Yes, again.  There was the whole re-finding my kinky self, which is doing pretty well these days.  Now i need to re-find my work self.  And maybe my everything else self too.  And recognize that it's just an ongoing process.  I don't get to do … Continue reading One-Mindful

I just started an online class on Mindfulness.  It's an 8 week program, modeled after the program that Jon Kabat-Zinn does in Massachusetts.   I've imagined ways to get to the program there, but it has stayed a distant fantasy.  This program (which is free!) is going to be my substitute.  I am pretty excited. In … Continue reading Mindful