I love it when an idea comes up in the community and different bloggers run with it from there, each in their own way. For example, slave shae recently had an experience in which Amanda had other people write on her body with a sharpie. It was a powerful experience for her - well, in the middle of … Continue reading Body Writing
Submissive women
Master Says
"Master says stop," he says. I freeze - standing bent over, my hands touching my toes. "Stand up," he says, in his best Dom voice, and I'm halfway up before I realize he didn't say "Master says". But it's too late, he laughs. "Come here," he says. "That's three." Yes, we were playing a warped game of Simon … Continue reading Master Says
The Joy of TTWD
I know, I'm always writing about joy these days. It's a lot better than the Days of Whining and Misery, isn't it? But I've been thinking today about TTWD. The urban dictionary says: "TTWD stands for "This Thing We Do" and is often used by the bdsm/kink community to describe non-vanilla practices or activities they may engage in, … Continue reading The Joy of TTWD
Rushing Through
"Hey, whoa, hang on..." "Oh! I'm sorry, Sir - I didn't see you there - I'm just.." "I know you didn't see me! You almost ran right into me. Where are you going in such a big hurry?" "Just getting more coffee. I wanted to get some more work done before you got up. So I was rushing." She felt herself … Continue reading Rushing Through
Kinky PSA
Blogs are a wonderful way to discover some of the exciting ways that kink shows up in people's lives and in our fantasies. However, they are not necessarily a reliable source of information when it comes to how to really live in a power exchange relationship. I thought it would be fun to share some books that … Continue reading Kinky PSA
Here Goes Nothing… a Munch?
The local munch is tomorrow night. I'm signed up to go. It's a serious RSVP, I don't feel like I can back out. Wait? Back out? you say. Right. Y'all know how introverts can be. Oh, yes! I wanna go!! Until it's time to go, and then it's all - ohhhh, maybe I better not... I'm not feeling great... I think it's … Continue reading Here Goes Nothing… a Munch?
Perspective
Some of you may remember that once upon a time, not really that long ago, I was firmly committed to the idea that I needed a Dom to Dom me; that to experience the pleasures of submission, there had to be a Dom physically present to inflict all the pleasure/pain. Since then, I've moved far away … Continue reading Perspective
Punished
She was standing, arms stretched above her head, suspended from a leather leash that ran from her cuffs to a hook in the ceiling. She was fastened securely, and grateful that she was not bound too tightly. She hated being whipped while she was pulled up on her toes. "Ohh!" she cried out - she had … Continue reading Punished
What about the Doms?
I'm over here being all analytical about submissives and what we need - which is, of course, what I know the most about. But I begin to wonder, what about the Doms? What is this like for them? What feelings get triggered that they have to work through? I know that a common one is working through their … Continue reading What about the Doms?
More on The Shadow
I had not expected the depth of response to my post on the Shadow and really appreciate it. I continue to think about it and look at different thoughts and perspecitives. I want to share this link from Michael's blog, The Dionysian Experience. He has a powerful post that he re-shares at the beginning of every year … Continue reading More on The Shadow
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