No, I'm not talking about actual gifts, not ones that come in brown wrapping paper or the ones under the tree. I've wandered back to the whole, "Is submission a gift?' question. I've decided it's a ridiculous question. After all, "submission" is a whole huge concept. It's a little bit like asking "Is parenting a gift? or "Is … Continue reading Gifts Unwrapped
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Wicked Naughty Interval 3 and Xmas
The two wonen standing in the doorway were not dressed in cute, kinky attire, they looked more like yoga teachers. Olivia felt even more aware of her own exposed state and moved to cover her breasts. Nora quickly stopped her, 'No, Olivia, put your hands behind your back, please, when you feel an urge to cover up. That's … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interval 3 and Xmas
Wicked Naughty Interlude 2 (& More)
Nora took Olivia by the wrist, and smiled at Sir Jon.”Let’s go into the small conference room and we can go over what services you want for your submissive.” Turning, she led the way down a short hallway and into a pleasant room. There was a desk and a couple of comfortable chairs to one side, with … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interlude 2 (& More)
Wicked Naughty Interlude
There are still things I want to talk about: - what is strength and do submissives have it and how does that work? Something about vulnerability, something about whether submission is a gift or not - and probably more. But after some comments Nora and I exchanged over on her blog, Finding Strength in my Submission, I wanted … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interlude
Exploring My Submission
I shared this in a comment yesterday, but want to play with it a bit more today. “I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, … Continue reading Exploring My Submission
Word of the Year, Solstice, and More
Selecting a Word of the Year is a lot like setting an intention, I think. I did it last year and enjoyed the process. Unfortunately, I don't remember what my word was, so I may or may not have ended up focusing on it throughout the year. In 2024, I would like to be mindful of the word … Continue reading Word of the Year, Solstice, and More
Shopping
We went shopping yesterday, Sir and I. Practically speaking, this involved us chatting, me taking pictures of items for him to consider and select from. Thongs, y'all. That what we went shopping for. I had none - as I mentioned before, had never tried them. But I got one pair, at his request, and wore them for him. They were … Continue reading Shopping
Tis the Season
This post is a potpourri of vanilla and kink, Christmas and Solstice, and includes music, planning, and some quick fantasy. If you're just here for the kink, you may want to pass. Every Christmas, I share my favorite non-traditional Christmas music. I already shared The Christians and The Pagans, which is probably number 1 on my "hits" … Continue reading Tis the Season
The Aftermath
One thing about submission - active submission - is the intensity and the insistent demand to pay attention to what I'm feeling. So the highs take me up near ecstasy and the lows bring me crashing down. I don't think this means there's something wrong (although I could be wrong.) I think it's part of the process - … Continue reading The Aftermath
Not a Girly Girl
I was going to talk about my upcoming appointment at the wax salon. As you may know, if you've been around a while, I have been pretty much untouched and unseen as a sexual being for 7 or 8 years, except for a couple of months in 2020. I should add "in person" because I like … Continue reading Not a Girly Girl
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