“But, chiquita, you must understand that while you are here, I expect you to come to me and share your fears. Even if I am the one causing them.”― Cherise Sinclair Ok, ok, vulnerability is not actually stupid, I know. And I practice it all the damn time. No, right, not really ALL the time, but … Continue reading Stupid Vulnerability
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Alpha Submissives
I've considered myself a alpha submissive since I first heard the term. In my vanilla life, I don't seem submissive - only the most astute Dom would think that I might be. I've always been grateful for the term alpha submissive since it seems to explain something about me. I used to really like the term "princess … Continue reading Alpha Submissives
Wicked Naughty Interval 6
Smack! Sir Jon's hand landed on her other ass cheek and she moaned, but relaxed into the sting. He continued spanking her, alternating cheeks. Bound to the massage table as she was, olivia could not escape the blows. And she didn't really want to escape. Sir Jon paused every few spanks and rubbed her ass, or ran his hand over … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interval 6
Wicked Naughty Interlude 5
Olivia, lying face down on the massage table, was absorbed by the warm, relaxed feeling of the massage she was experiencing. Betsy and Candace had worked their way down to her feet, and olivia was moaning softly with pleasure. As they finished working on her feet, olivia vaguely wondered what would happen next. "All finished?" It was … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interlude 5
New Year’s Eve 2023
You've probably noticed that this blog has seen more action in the last month than in the whole year preceding it! It's been an amazing month. One of the pleasures that I haven't talked about before is discovering new blogs and connecting with some interesting bloggers. I've been thinking about following Sir Jon's example and starting a … Continue reading New Year’s Eve 2023
Word of the Year 2024
I picked my word. Are you ready? (Drum roll, please) The word is: Light. The Cambridge English Dictionary defines light as "the brightness that comes from the sun, fire, etc. and from electrical devices, and that allows things to be seen." Light is defined as "not weighing a lot." It can mean "entertaining and easily understood, but not serious … Continue reading Word of the Year 2024
Submissive Reflections on Words
Sir Jon has been sharing his knowledge and experience on his blog. He posted three Dom Talks recently, Two Little Words of D/s, The Power of No (and other words) , (which actually includes a quote from me! ) and Subdrop/Aftercare, that have been particularly powerful and rang true for me. I encourage you to read those … Continue reading Submissive Reflections on Words
The Price of Submission
Last night, Sir Jon made sure that my needs for spanking were met. The spoon, the bath brush, even the red spatula I brought from home, were all put to good use. It seemed like he is learning how far to take me, pushing me a bit farther, and it was so, so amazingly good. And. That … Continue reading The Price of Submission
Playing On Retreat
A work retreat I had scheduled has given Sir Jon and me an opportunity to have time together with privacy on my end. This has been an amazing gift. Well, a gift to go with the gifts he had sent me earlier this week! I laid out the toys as soon as I got here. Every time I … Continue reading Playing On Retreat
Wicked Naughty Interval 4
As Olivia was led down the hall, her wrist firmly held in Betsy's grasp, she felt as if this must be happening to somebody else. She was no longer concerned about being the one naked woman in the room, but she was a bit anxious about what was going to happen next. Sir Jon had prepared her … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interval 4
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