I love rope - have i mentioned that? Lol, yes, I know I have. But last night reminded me of how much I love it. Just the sense of being restrained is so lovely. While I was securely tied to a chair, legs open, Sir used a number of strappy toys on me - my … Continue reading Rope
submission
Demisexual?
I am fascinated and often delighted by the variety of ways we can define our sexuality. Sir has been researching some terms for himself (which I won't share, although he has indicated how he identifies on his Fetlife profile.) But I've been thinking about myself today and who I'm attracted to. Yes, I like labels. … Continue reading Demisexual?
Last Night’s Menu
In our earliest efforts at D/s life, spankings often happened with my hands restrained over my head - there was actually a hook in the wall specifically for that purpose. In the beginning, I ended up feeling like his spanking lacked energy and enthusiasm. When he tried to adjust that, he ended up just whaling … Continue reading Last Night’s Menu
Omg
Sir's inner sadist has been awakened. Today is Maintenance Day. Before our time together, Sir sends me an email with an outline of what to expect that evening. I do appreciate that. So part of the email for today included this: Tonight’s All You Can Eat menu will be Appetizers- Wooden spoon … Continue reading Omg
Guilt Free
"Come here," he said. Quickly, she put down her book and approached him. He was settled comfortably in his chair, a plush leather recliner. He was not reclining. She hesitated just inside the room, thinking he might need her to bring him something. "Yes, Sir?" "No, come here," he said, gesturing to the kneeling bench … Continue reading Guilt Free
On Strike?
I have been feeling a little bit lost lately. Work is not going well, entirely my own fault. I’m back to not doing the things I need to do. Apparently, I can not do my work for any number of reasons. Too distracted, too busy with other things, too tired, too unsure of what to … Continue reading On Strike?
Words, words and more words…
I'm laughing about today's WordPress prompt for today: If you could permanently ban a word from general usage, which word would it be? Why? I'm not one to ban words just on general principle. If I were going to ban any word, it would probably be the n-word, but then there are black people who … Continue reading Words, words and more words…
What about Slut?
In a comment on my last post, Helen of Ten Shades and Me offered that she doesn't like the word slut. She noted that it's overused, almost banal, and not creative at all. I can't argue with that. At the same time, it doesn't affect me that way. In the Meriam Webster dictionary, slut is … Continue reading What about Slut?
More about Spanking
I've been thinking about the changes in myself this time around with Sir X. I like to think of myself as a gentle, easy-going person, kind and non-judgemental. And in some ways, I think that's accurate. However... I can also be opinionated, stubborn, rigid, and difficult. I know - shocking, right? I think that in … Continue reading More about Spanking
Spank-o-rama
That's what Sir is calling our Wednesday maintenance sessions now. A Spank-o-roma. And it was. He thought 68 was too high a number of strokes, so he took it down to 34. 34 with the thin paddle, 34 with the medium paddle, 34 with the heavy paddle, and 34 with the leather strap. Yikes. Ok, … Continue reading Spank-o-rama
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