No, this is not the next installment of Amelia's story, but she'll be back. I need to share a bit about what's happening in my real life. Sir X has always been one to research things, often just for the fun of it. Now that he's turned his attention to being my Dom, it is a whole … Continue reading Catching Up
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Prelude Part 3 (Formerly And the Beat Goes On…)
Amelia was lost in thought for a moment, just trying to process what was happening. She had done all kinds of reading about BDSM; factual books like The Ethical Slut and novels like Masters of the Castle. But it had all seemed like fantasy. Now she was experiencing a little taste of it. Thrilling and terrifying, she thought. Ok, … Continue reading Prelude Part 3 (Formerly And the Beat Goes On…)
And the Beat Goes On…
"No," she said. He looked at her curiously. "No? I didn't ask you anything." She laughed, "But you were about to ask me if you could sit here, weren't you?" The coffee shop was crowded, there weren't any other tables left, and he definitely had the look of someone searching for a seat. "Oh, you're waiting for someone," … Continue reading And the Beat Goes On…
Body Writing
I love it when an idea comes up in the community and different bloggers run with it from there, each in their own way. For example, slave shae recently had an experience in which Amanda had other people write on her body with a sharpie. It was a powerful experience for her - well, in the middle of … Continue reading Body Writing
Kinky PSA
Blogs are a wonderful way to discover some of the exciting ways that kink shows up in people's lives and in our fantasies. However, they are not necessarily a reliable source of information when it comes to how to really live in a power exchange relationship. I thought it would be fun to share some books that … Continue reading Kinky PSA
Perspective
Some of you may remember that once upon a time, not really that long ago, I was firmly committed to the idea that I needed a Dom to Dom me; that to experience the pleasures of submission, there had to be a Dom physically present to inflict all the pleasure/pain. Since then, I've moved far away … Continue reading Perspective
More on The Shadow
I had not expected the depth of response to my post on the Shadow and really appreciate it. I continue to think about it and look at different thoughts and perspecitives. I want to share this link from Michael's blog, The Dionysian Experience. He has a powerful post that he re-shares at the beginning of every year … Continue reading More on The Shadow
Shadows
Being a fan of Jung and Jungian psychology, I believe that we all have a shadow side - that part of ourselves that we keep hidden. Often, people try to hide their shadow from themselves. "Oh, I'm. not that kind of person, I'd never do that..." No matter what "that" is, there are things we'd like to think … Continue reading Shadows
Submissive Reflections on Words
Sir Jon has been sharing his knowledge and experience on his blog. He posted three Dom Talks recently, Two Little Words of D/s, The Power of No (and other words) , (which actually includes a quote from me! ) and Subdrop/Aftercare, that have been particularly powerful and rang true for me. I encourage you to read those … Continue reading Submissive Reflections on Words
The Price of Submission
Last night, Sir Jon made sure that my needs for spanking were met. The spoon, the bath brush, even the red spatula I brought from home, were all put to good use. It seemed like he is learning how far to take me, pushing me a bit farther, and it was so, so amazingly good. And. That … Continue reading The Price of Submission
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