We went shopping yesterday, Sir and I. Practically speaking, this involved us chatting, me taking pictures of items for him to consider and select from. Thongs, y'all. That what we went shopping for. I had none - as I mentioned before, had never tried them. But I got one pair, at his request, and wore them for him. They were … Continue reading Shopping
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Tis the Season
This post is a potpourri of vanilla and kink, Christmas and Solstice, and includes music, planning, and some quick fantasy. If you're just here for the kink, you may want to pass. Every Christmas, I share my favorite non-traditional Christmas music. I already shared The Christians and The Pagans, which is probably number 1 on my "hits" … Continue reading Tis the Season
The Aftermath
One thing about submission - active submission - is the intensity and the insistent demand to pay attention to what I'm feeling. So the highs take me up near ecstasy and the lows bring me crashing down. I don't think this means there's something wrong (although I could be wrong.) I think it's part of the process - … Continue reading The Aftermath
Not a Girly Girl
I was going to talk about my upcoming appointment at the wax salon. As you may know, if you've been around a while, I have been pretty much untouched and unseen as a sexual being for 7 or 8 years, except for a couple of months in 2020. I should add "in person" because I like … Continue reading Not a Girly Girl
The Spanking
She headed for bed with a heavy heart. Her optimistic expectations about a project at work had been dashed. She was disappointed and anxious and out of sorts. He was reading, sitting comfortably in his chair. "Hey," he said. "Come here," adding gently, "Please." She turned toward him, "Of course, Sir," and he saw the sadness in her … Continue reading The Spanking
Never Have I Ever
Have you heard of that game - Never Have I Ever? It’s usually a drinking game. Someone starts off by naming something simple they’ve never done before, and any one who has done it is supposed to take a drink. It’s a lot of fun and funny to hear the things people have actually done. Facebook has … Continue reading Never Have I Ever
Submissive Humor
"Submissive: "Oh, no, not the whip, Sir, please, Sir, anything but the whip!! Dominant: (waggling eyebrows, Groucho style) Anything? Submissive: The whip, the whip!!" That is so old, I don't remember where I first heard it, but it has always amused me. I also don't know why it's been going through my mind the last … Continue reading Submissive Humor
Changes
If you are a new reader here, this may not seem like a huge big deal. But if you've been around a while, you have probably watched me struggle for years with my longing for a Dominant of my own. I won't rehash that story, but there has been lots of opportunity for me to … Continue reading Changes
Sunday Snippet
She woke up warm and cozy in bed, rolled over thinking more sleep would be nice. But just as she was about to doze back off, her eyes popped back open. Sunday! It was Sunday! What time... omg. Already 7:00. No time to waste lollygagging around in bed. (That made her giggle to herself - … Continue reading Sunday Snippet
Thoughts on Submission
One of the comments on my poem yesterday was from David, over at Dispatches from Dystopia. David and I have known each other a long time and have seen each other go through all kinds of changes over the years. His comment really hit home with me. He said: "This is a proclamation that passion … Continue reading Thoughts on Submission
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