Sir Jon has been sharing his knowledge and experience on his blog. He posted three Dom Talks recently, Two Little Words of D/s, The Power of No (and other words) , (which actually includes a quote from me! ) and Subdrop/Aftercare, that have been particularly powerful and rang true for me. I encourage you to read those … Continue reading Submissive Reflections on Words
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The Price of Submission
Last night, Sir Jon made sure that my needs for spanking were met. The spoon, the bath brush, even the red spatula I brought from home, were all put to good use. It seemed like he is learning how far to take me, pushing me a bit farther, and it was so, so amazingly good. And. That … Continue reading The Price of Submission
Playing On Retreat
A work retreat I had scheduled has given Sir Jon and me an opportunity to have time together with privacy on my end. This has been an amazing gift. Well, a gift to go with the gifts he had sent me earlier this week! I laid out the toys as soon as I got here. Every time I … Continue reading Playing On Retreat
Wicked Naughty Interval 4
As Olivia was led down the hall, her wrist firmly held in Betsy's grasp, she felt as if this must be happening to somebody else. She was no longer concerned about being the one naked woman in the room, but she was a bit anxious about what was going to happen next. Sir Jon had prepared her … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interval 4
Gifts Unwrapped
No, I'm not talking about actual gifts, not ones that come in brown wrapping paper or the ones under the tree. I've wandered back to the whole, "Is submission a gift?' question. I've decided it's a ridiculous question. After all, "submission" is a whole huge concept. It's a little bit like asking "Is parenting a gift? or "Is … Continue reading Gifts Unwrapped
Wicked Naughty Interval 3 and Xmas
The two wonen standing in the doorway were not dressed in cute, kinky attire, they looked more like yoga teachers. Olivia felt even more aware of her own exposed state and moved to cover her breasts. Nora quickly stopped her, 'No, Olivia, put your hands behind your back, please, when you feel an urge to cover up. That's … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interval 3 and Xmas
Wicked Naughty Interlude 2 (& More)
Nora took Olivia by the wrist, and smiled at Sir Jon.”Let’s go into the small conference room and we can go over what services you want for your submissive.” Turning, she led the way down a short hallway and into a pleasant room. There was a desk and a couple of comfortable chairs to one side, with … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interlude 2 (& More)
Wicked Naughty Interlude
There are still things I want to talk about: - what is strength and do submissives have it and how does that work? Something about vulnerability, something about whether submission is a gift or not - and probably more. But after some comments Nora and I exchanged over on her blog, Finding Strength in my Submission, I wanted … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interlude
Exploring My Submission
I shared this in a comment yesterday, but want to play with it a bit more today. “I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, … Continue reading Exploring My Submission
Word of the Year, Solstice, and More
Selecting a Word of the Year is a lot like setting an intention, I think. I did it last year and enjoyed the process. Unfortunately, I don't remember what my word was, so I may or may not have ended up focusing on it throughout the year. In 2024, I would like to be mindful of the word … Continue reading Word of the Year, Solstice, and More
Olivia 