From the beginning, Sir Jon has been open and totally clear about his intention to have more than one D/s relationship. I am equally clear that I'm fine with that. I want him to be free to in whatever ways are important to him. In the same way, I expect space to be able to do what I … Continue reading Ethical Polyamory
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Attentiveness
I've been thinking about all kinds of things lately, many of them related to my relationship with my Sir. Some of them, he brought up on his blog in his post Sunday Musings. I've been following the comments on that with great interest, of course. Thanks to those of you who offered to explore the topics further with … Continue reading Attentiveness
Wicked Naughty Interlude 7
Bound to the massage table, her wrist cuffs attached to rings in the sides of the table, Olivia was unable to get up or even try to protect herself from the belt. Her ass was raised, ankle cuffs fastened so that her legs were spread, leaving her most sensitive parts exposed. And she was completely focused on … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interlude 7
Daily
A bit tired and head-achy this morning - nothing more coffee won't fix. Yesterday, I mentally wrote the whole next installment of Wicked Naughty, but this morning, it feels a bit overwhelming to actually write it down. I know, I don't have to write it for youall, at least that's what I think you'll say. But I … Continue reading Daily
Stupid Vulnerability
“But, chiquita, you must understand that while you are here, I expect you to come to me and share your fears. Even if I am the one causing them.”― Cherise Sinclair Ok, ok, vulnerability is not actually stupid, I know. And I practice it all the damn time. No, right, not really ALL the time, but … Continue reading Stupid Vulnerability
Alpha Submissives
I've considered myself a alpha submissive since I first heard the term. In my vanilla life, I don't seem submissive - only the most astute Dom would think that I might be. I've always been grateful for the term alpha submissive since it seems to explain something about me. I used to really like the term "princess … Continue reading Alpha Submissives
Wicked Naughty Interlude 5
Olivia, lying face down on the massage table, was absorbed by the warm, relaxed feeling of the massage she was experiencing. Betsy and Candace had worked their way down to her feet, and olivia was moaning softly with pleasure. As they finished working on her feet, olivia vaguely wondered what would happen next. "All finished?" It was … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interlude 5
Welcoming 2024
I looked for a quote that would express all my feelings today, right at the beginning of the new year. But none of the quotes spoke from my heart (not really a surprise, I guess.) So I had to write it myself. I want to flow into the New Year, feeling fresh beginnings around me, new … Continue reading Welcoming 2024
New Year’s Eve 2023
You've probably noticed that this blog has seen more action in the last month than in the whole year preceding it! It's been an amazing month. One of the pleasures that I haven't talked about before is discovering new blogs and connecting with some interesting bloggers. I've been thinking about following Sir Jon's example and starting a … Continue reading New Year’s Eve 2023
Word of the Year 2024
I picked my word. Are you ready? (Drum roll, please) The word is: Light. The Cambridge English Dictionary defines light as "the brightness that comes from the sun, fire, etc. and from electrical devices, and that allows things to be seen." Light is defined as "not weighing a lot." It can mean "entertaining and easily understood, but not serious … Continue reading Word of the Year 2024
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