I like nothing more than planning, so as soon as Sir had told me to make up a list of what I wanted in my routine, I dived into the work. The first list I made had about 15 things on it, and I realized that was not going to be a sustainable plan. I … Continue reading The Rhythm of This Life – Part 2
The Rhythm of This Life
"No, Sir," I said, "It's not that I'm unhappy, there isn't anything wrong. Or not exactly. But - you know how ambivalent I am about routine. I love to be this free-flowing spirit who does what feels right in the moment, but then I long for routine and feeling more grounded. I seek structure around … Continue reading The Rhythm of This Life
A Fun Opportunity
We have talked before about promoting each other's books, and I haven't been very good about doing that. I'll try to improve. But this opportunity came up and I wanted to share it. If you want to have the pleasure of reading a book before it's published, my dear friend, Mercy, has ARC Sign-ups open … Continue reading A Fun Opportunity
Happy Anniversary to Me
My WordPress anniversary. According to WordPress, I first registered with them 15 years ago today. So I've been blogging about BDSM since May 7, 2010. I went back to my first blog and my first post: This is my first post! O, my. Ok, this is a blog about me, aisha. And Sir. And submission – … Continue reading Happy Anniversary to Me
Preparing Iris {A Draft from the Past}
”Iris? Iris! Girl. Wake up.” ”Mmmmm?” She stirred, turned over and cuddled up facing him. He chuckled, and pinched a nipple. Hard. Her eyes popped open. ”Ouch!” And then memories came flooding back over her. Kneeling on the kitchen floor. Stinging slaps on the inside of her thighs and an amazing orgasm. Getting fucked, with … Continue reading Preparing Iris {A Draft from the Past}
For the Record, Y’all
I have a long-standing fantasy about having a Dom who would manage my behavior so that I do all the things I "should" do for my own good. It used to be exercise and self-care things he would manage, now that I'm more or less where I need to be on that, I'm looking at … Continue reading For the Record, Y’all
Not Too Hot, Not Too Cold…
Tea with Ms. Constance was always a treat, and Delilah thought that today was no exception. Ms. Constance had a larger-than-life personality that fascinated Delilah, and she could listen to the older woman telling stories for hours. But they didn't have hours today, just a short visit over tea, a good opportunity to get her … Continue reading Not Too Hot, Not Too Cold…
To Please
"To please:" I wrote, very carefully, in my notebook. "to make someone feel happy or satisfied, or to give someone pleasure. I please by being obedient." I sighed. That was the third time I'd written it, and I still had 17 more times to go. In between each repetition, I paused to think about what … Continue reading To Please
The Paradox of Submission
Submission: the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person. e.g. "They were forced into submission" The whole point of submission is that you're doing what someone else wants you to do. My long-time-ago unoffoical Dom, Mike, used to say, "You know how … Continue reading The Paradox of Submission
Her Training, Part 5
This is the second part of the drafts that I never published because I freaked myself out. It still does a little bit...} Master Joshua was holding her leash now. As she stood and turned to face the dining room table, she noticed there was a man already seated on one side of the table. … Continue reading Her Training, Part 5
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