There are still things I want to talk about: - what is strength and do submissives have it and how does that work? Something about vulnerability, something about whether submission is a gift or not - and probably more. But after some comments Nora and I exchanged over on her blog, Finding Strength in my Submission, I wanted … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interlude
Happy Winter Solstice 2023
May the Solstice and turning of the wheel Bring you love, peace, and good fortune in the coming year. Let us welcome The returning sun with Hope and Joy. May you never thirst. Before the celebration begins, there are a couple of things that came up in the comments last night that i want to mention, because … Continue reading Happy Winter Solstice 2023
Exploring My Submission
I shared this in a comment yesterday, but want to play with it a bit more today. “I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, … Continue reading Exploring My Submission
Word of the Year, Solstice, and More
Selecting a Word of the Year is a lot like setting an intention, I think. I did it last year and enjoyed the process. Unfortunately, I don't remember what my word was, so I may or may not have ended up focusing on it throughout the year. In 2024, I would like to be mindful of the word … Continue reading Word of the Year, Solstice, and More
Shopping
We went shopping yesterday, Sir and I. Practically speaking, this involved us chatting, me taking pictures of items for him to consider and select from. Thongs, y'all. That what we went shopping for. I had none - as I mentioned before, had never tried them. But I got one pair, at his request, and wore them for him. They were … Continue reading Shopping
Tis the Season
This post is a potpourri of vanilla and kink, Christmas and Solstice, and includes music, planning, and some quick fantasy. If you're just here for the kink, you may want to pass. Every Christmas, I share my favorite non-traditional Christmas music. I already shared The Christians and The Pagans, which is probably number 1 on my "hits" … Continue reading Tis the Season
The Aftermath
One thing about submission - active submission - is the intensity and the insistent demand to pay attention to what I'm feeling. So the highs take me up near ecstasy and the lows bring me crashing down. I don't think this means there's something wrong (although I could be wrong.) I think it's part of the process - … Continue reading The Aftermath
Not a Girly Girl
I was going to talk about my upcoming appointment at the wax salon. As you may know, if you've been around a while, I have been pretty much untouched and unseen as a sexual being for 7 or 8 years, except for a couple of months in 2020. I should add "in person" because I like … Continue reading Not a Girly Girl
The Spanking
She headed for bed with a heavy heart. Her optimistic expectations about a project at work had been dashed. She was disappointed and anxious and out of sorts. He was reading, sitting comfortably in his chair. "Hey," he said. "Come here," adding gently, "Please." She turned toward him, "Of course, Sir," and he saw the sadness in her … Continue reading The Spanking
Never Have I Ever
Have you heard of that game - Never Have I Ever? It’s usually a drinking game. Someone starts off by naming something simple they’ve never done before, and any one who has done it is supposed to take a drink. It’s a lot of fun and funny to hear the things people have actually done. Facebook has … Continue reading Never Have I Ever
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