There are still things I want to talk about: - what is strength and do submissives have it and how does that work? Something about vulnerability, something about whether submission is a gift or not - and probably more. But after some comments Nora and I exchanged over on her blog, Finding Strength in my Submission, I wanted … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interlude
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Exploring My Submission
I shared this in a comment yesterday, but want to play with it a bit more today. “I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, … Continue reading Exploring My Submission
Word of the Year, Solstice, and More
Selecting a Word of the Year is a lot like setting an intention, I think. I did it last year and enjoyed the process. Unfortunately, I don't remember what my word was, so I may or may not have ended up focusing on it throughout the year. In 2024, I would like to be mindful of the word … Continue reading Word of the Year, Solstice, and More
Shopping
We went shopping yesterday, Sir and I. Practically speaking, this involved us chatting, me taking pictures of items for him to consider and select from. Thongs, y'all. That what we went shopping for. I had none - as I mentioned before, had never tried them. But I got one pair, at his request, and wore them for him. They were … Continue reading Shopping
Tis the Season
This post is a potpourri of vanilla and kink, Christmas and Solstice, and includes music, planning, and some quick fantasy. If you're just here for the kink, you may want to pass. Every Christmas, I share my favorite non-traditional Christmas music. I already shared The Christians and The Pagans, which is probably number 1 on my "hits" … Continue reading Tis the Season
The Spanking
She headed for bed with a heavy heart. Her optimistic expectations about a project at work had been dashed. She was disappointed and anxious and out of sorts. He was reading, sitting comfortably in his chair. "Hey," he said. "Come here," adding gently, "Please." She turned toward him, "Of course, Sir," and he saw the sadness in her … Continue reading The Spanking
Never Have I Ever
Have you heard of that game - Never Have I Ever? It’s usually a drinking game. Someone starts off by naming something simple they’ve never done before, and any one who has done it is supposed to take a drink. It’s a lot of fun and funny to hear the things people have actually done. Facebook has … Continue reading Never Have I Ever
Submissive Humor
"Submissive: "Oh, no, not the whip, Sir, please, Sir, anything but the whip!! Dominant: (waggling eyebrows, Groucho style) Anything? Submissive: The whip, the whip!!" That is so old, I don't remember where I first heard it, but it has always amused me. I also don't know why it's been going through my mind the last … Continue reading Submissive Humor
Changes
If you are a new reader here, this may not seem like a huge big deal. But if you've been around a while, you have probably watched me struggle for years with my longing for a Dominant of my own. I won't rehash that story, but there has been lots of opportunity for me to … Continue reading Changes
Sunday Snippet
She woke up warm and cozy in bed, rolled over thinking more sleep would be nice. But just as she was about to doze back off, her eyes popped back open. Sunday! It was Sunday! What time... omg. Already 7:00. No time to waste lollygagging around in bed. (That made her giggle to herself - … Continue reading Sunday Snippet
Olivia 